This is a great time of year for sports fans. You have the Olympics in London which, to me, seems more intriguing than ever, you have NFL pre-season kicking off, you have the blockbuster trade of the Lakers and for those baseball fans...whatever. So amidst all of this why so many negative views?
Olympics: Should NBA players play? If so, should there be an age limit? Why is Usain Bolt disrespecting Carl Lewis? Who is the best Olympian ever Bolt or Phelps? US Soccer women had t-shirts printed that celebrated their accomplishment--how dare they?
My answer? Money. NBA and its owners want to limit who plays in the Olympics. Why? They're not getting their cut. One of the most outspoken is Mavs owner Mark Cuban. Not sure why he cares since no one (not named Nowitski) on the roster is making the Olympics. Nowitski would be playing for Germany and good luck getting your "cut" from them. The NBA cares about lining their pockets even more. The pro's were criticized when D Wade suggested they get paid to play. Actually they do when they medal (25k for gold, 15k for silver and 10k for bronze). Hey it's gas money for the Maybach for a year. We can't go back to the college players for 1 VERY good reason...We don't have too many that stay in college! If you're NBA caliber talent (or even close to it these days) you're 1 or 2 years and done. Rarely do you see these guys stay 3-4 years. The age limit thing in the NBA will prohibit players who are beyond the limit after some have hit their peak. The olympics is every 4 years. You get a college player who stays until their Jr or Sr year (age 19-21), they go pro and 4 years later the Olympics rolls around again. They're possibly over the limit w/o a chance to play for their country. I'll concede it may not happen as often but no other country is considering doing this why would we? The talent in other countries is a lot higher now because of the NBA. Let the big dogs be The Big Dogs.
The Lakers trade for D12 is drawing some of the old arguments. Small markets can't compete. That's crap! Small markets shouldn't have owners send out inflammatory tweets about stars leaving. Small markets need to hire GM/HC better and make better long term decisions. See Pacers, OKC and Spurs as proof smaller markets can/do compete with the larger ones. The Clippers made the playoffs for the first time since Kennedy was president. Big Markets do have more room for error, but they have to be smart too.
Greatest Olympian ever? My two cents I say Phelps. Yes he has more opportunities in swimming than they do in track and field. But 22 medals and 18 of them are gold. 18!!! You STILL have to compete against the best of the best in every event and you do that to a clip of 18 first place finishes, 2 second place and 2 third place. I say Phelps. Doesn't make me right, because it's ALL subjective. Some people have to stop being so sensitive and thinking one group is voting for another because of race. Racism exists, it's just not in every decision made.
speaking of being over sensative the US womens soccer team getting grief over t-shirts they wore after beating the same team who beat them for the World Cup is just stupid! You have to wait 4 years to win an Olympic gold medal (summer olympics at least). No do overs. No mulligans. No 2nd chance next year, or the year after that. World Cup and Olympic gold are TWO VERY different things! You work at your craft that long to be the best and then prove it during the course of several days. Yea, you deserve to get loose! For all the "ugly American blasts" I say BLLLPPPPP!!!
then again, maybe it's just me...but I doubt it
Friday, August 10, 2012
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
Why the NBA is missing the boat on what is REALLY the problem
I'm baaack!!! It's been a minute but allow me to give my usual EXPERT opinion and fix what is wrong (or at least tell you what's wrong) in the NBA. Ready?! Heeere we go!
Small market owners are complaining about the rich getting richer and the big market teams fielding better competition than they are/can. The latest craze (which will somehow find it's way to be blamed on LeBron and/or President Obama somehow) is the 'concept' of "the big 3." Everybody knows the whole LeBron "decision" campaign and him taking his talents to south beach--not rehashing that. People came out of the wood work spraining ankles, twisting backs and pulling hamstrings to pile on why this was a "cowardly move." How quickly do we forget! They say hindsight is 20/20. Really? Then why don't these owners/gm see what's always been there?!
Anybody ever heard of Bill Russel, Bob Cousy? How about Bird, McHale, Parrish? Magic, Worthy, Kareem? Dr. J, Darryl Dawkins, Moses Malone, Mo Cheeks? Jerry West, Wilt and the big O? The concept of the big 3 has been in the NBA for years. The issue isn't teams are putting the big 3's together--the change has come due to two MAJOR pieces. 1. Salary cap and 1a. Talent pool
Salary Cap has prevented the smaller market teams from being able to put their chips in and buy multiple free agents. On the surface you may say "that's the argument--lack of an even playing field." This is only one part of it. Teams are having to draft young inexperienced players, teach them over the next 2-4 years (which is what they would get in college). By the time they develop their games, their 1st contracts are up, likely the coach that was there may be fired by now, the team is left with hiring a new coach, overpaying for a guy who is just now developing and hoping he does blossom into a star. This is where the salary cap hurts the smaller teams--little room for error. Don't get me wrong; prior to the high school/1 year college player surge hit, you still had some bad player decisions. The major difference is you at least got to see them compete in college 2-3 years. You were able to overcome a bad selection—your percentages of getting a better player were in your favor. 2-3 years of training (college ball) goes a long way in the develop process. If Kwame Brown went to college would he still have been #1 overall? Not likely. If Kobe went to college, do you think he would have been drafted 8th then traded? Nope. There’s an argument on both sides. It helps SOME of these guys mature on and off the court. It also gets them around better talent.
Now days with the 1 year rule, you have glimpses of brilliance in college, with kids who typically don't have developed bodies for the NBA grind at potential stars. THAT is the crux of the problem! The talent pool of TRUE NBA players is shallow. You have so many players that aren’t ready that make the jump. Teams have to draft them on potential when you have very little to go off of. These decisions lock up money or you let a guy go and he develops elsewhere. Back in the days of Magic, Jordan, Isaiah, Bird, etc…you had players who proved themselves in college. They had a more polished game. Every team in the NBA had a bonified all-star. Some teams had 2 or 3 or even more. Over time as the talent weakened it took those all stars from one team and moved them to bigger teams who could afford a luxury tax or afford to pay 2 or more stars. The smaller markets couldn’t compete not just with money but with time—the gambles on players were even more risky since you didn’t have much to view. A wrong step and you’ve set a franchise back several years. A modern day success story is the Thunder. They drafted young players like Durant, Harden, Westbrook who all developed well. They also had a supporting fan base to give them time. You have the opposite in the Wizards and Bobcats who can’t get the right pieces in place. Solve the problem by improving the talent pool. Either pay the college kids or put real money and time in your D-league. The other option is having these small markets continue to struggle to the point of folding or just being the Washington Generals to a league of Harlem Globetrotters.
…maybe it’s just me, but I doubt it!
Small market owners are complaining about the rich getting richer and the big market teams fielding better competition than they are/can. The latest craze (which will somehow find it's way to be blamed on LeBron and/or President Obama somehow) is the 'concept' of "the big 3." Everybody knows the whole LeBron "decision" campaign and him taking his talents to south beach--not rehashing that. People came out of the wood work spraining ankles, twisting backs and pulling hamstrings to pile on why this was a "cowardly move." How quickly do we forget! They say hindsight is 20/20. Really? Then why don't these owners/gm see what's always been there?!
Anybody ever heard of Bill Russel, Bob Cousy? How about Bird, McHale, Parrish? Magic, Worthy, Kareem? Dr. J, Darryl Dawkins, Moses Malone, Mo Cheeks? Jerry West, Wilt and the big O? The concept of the big 3 has been in the NBA for years. The issue isn't teams are putting the big 3's together--the change has come due to two MAJOR pieces. 1. Salary cap and 1a. Talent pool
Salary Cap has prevented the smaller market teams from being able to put their chips in and buy multiple free agents. On the surface you may say "that's the argument--lack of an even playing field." This is only one part of it. Teams are having to draft young inexperienced players, teach them over the next 2-4 years (which is what they would get in college). By the time they develop their games, their 1st contracts are up, likely the coach that was there may be fired by now, the team is left with hiring a new coach, overpaying for a guy who is just now developing and hoping he does blossom into a star. This is where the salary cap hurts the smaller teams--little room for error. Don't get me wrong; prior to the high school/1 year college player surge hit, you still had some bad player decisions. The major difference is you at least got to see them compete in college 2-3 years. You were able to overcome a bad selection—your percentages of getting a better player were in your favor. 2-3 years of training (college ball) goes a long way in the develop process. If Kwame Brown went to college would he still have been #1 overall? Not likely. If Kobe went to college, do you think he would have been drafted 8th then traded? Nope. There’s an argument on both sides. It helps SOME of these guys mature on and off the court. It also gets them around better talent.
Now days with the 1 year rule, you have glimpses of brilliance in college, with kids who typically don't have developed bodies for the NBA grind at potential stars. THAT is the crux of the problem! The talent pool of TRUE NBA players is shallow. You have so many players that aren’t ready that make the jump. Teams have to draft them on potential when you have very little to go off of. These decisions lock up money or you let a guy go and he develops elsewhere. Back in the days of Magic, Jordan, Isaiah, Bird, etc…you had players who proved themselves in college. They had a more polished game. Every team in the NBA had a bonified all-star. Some teams had 2 or 3 or even more. Over time as the talent weakened it took those all stars from one team and moved them to bigger teams who could afford a luxury tax or afford to pay 2 or more stars. The smaller markets couldn’t compete not just with money but with time—the gambles on players were even more risky since you didn’t have much to view. A wrong step and you’ve set a franchise back several years. A modern day success story is the Thunder. They drafted young players like Durant, Harden, Westbrook who all developed well. They also had a supporting fan base to give them time. You have the opposite in the Wizards and Bobcats who can’t get the right pieces in place. Solve the problem by improving the talent pool. Either pay the college kids or put real money and time in your D-league. The other option is having these small markets continue to struggle to the point of folding or just being the Washington Generals to a league of Harlem Globetrotters.
…maybe it’s just me, but I doubt it!
Thursday, June 28, 2012
State of the Lakers
It's been a while since I dropped a sports related blog. I figured on the eve of the NBA draft, what better time than to grace all of you with my patented "expert opinion." Let's get to it shall we?!
Mitch Kupchak is regarded by many as a top notch GM. I'm not so convinced. He took over for Jerry West (aka "the logo) for the 2000-2001 season. The few Lakers first round picks from that season to today (7) are the following "marquee" names:
Mark Madsen, Chris Jefferies (traded), Brian Cook, Sash Vujacic, Andrew Bynum, Jordan Farmar, Javaris Crittenton, and Toney Douglas (traded). SIGH...
I'll give you Bynum even though he was the pick made after we traded Shaq and Bynum was a skinny high schooler who didn't contribute for a few years. The rest... COME ON MAN!
7 first round picks in 12 years and this is the list?! Some of these guys have been traded more than a pack of cigarettes in an episode of Oz! Ok, but a GM's mettle is tested by his evaluation of talent. What about the 2nd round picks and the trades?
3/4 of the 2nd round picks I couldn't tweet because of character restrictions. The best 2nd round pick to date was probably Luke "I have no back" Walton. Jury is still out on the youngsters we got in the last two years (Ebanks, Caracter and Morris). Trade wise, we traded Shaq for a 1st round pick (Jordan Farmar), Caron Butler, Odom, and Brian Grant. Caron is playing for the Clippers and got a ring last year with the Mavs, LO is in reality TV land traded him for a 1st round pick that we gave up for a fresh pack of Juicy Fruit and a avocado seed, Brian Grant retired 5 minutes after we traded for him. Shaq? Oh, he wont another title with Miami the first year there.
Ok, I'm getting to the "other" trade too. To be fair. Mitch did trade Kwame Brown, Javaris Crittenton, Aaron McKie's contract (cause he sure didn't play) and Marc Gasol, 2 first round picks to his daddy, I mean Jerry West for Pau and 2nd round pick (Ebanks). Pau helped get us to 3 championships (winning 2), but lately has played soft as butter in the playoffs. So those who say the Lakers fleeced the Griz consider we gave up a marquee piece in Marc Gasol plus 2 first round picks--not bad. I still think Jerry was bailing out his protege with the deal.
Here we are on the door step of the NBA draft. Lakers are in pursuit of a trade for Gasol. Rumor is they want a top 10 pick and a player. Not likely to happen so they may get Josh Smith and the 23rd pick. Not the value I'd like, but at this point, let's just get something done! It may be time for Mitch to seek greener pastures. I know, I know 'the Lakers could do much worse than Mitch Kupchak for a GM.' Yea, we could get Michael Jordan running the franchise in the ground...
Mitch Kupchak is regarded by many as a top notch GM. I'm not so convinced. He took over for Jerry West (aka "the logo) for the 2000-2001 season. The few Lakers first round picks from that season to today (7) are the following "marquee" names:
Mark Madsen, Chris Jefferies (traded), Brian Cook, Sash Vujacic, Andrew Bynum, Jordan Farmar, Javaris Crittenton, and Toney Douglas (traded). SIGH...
I'll give you Bynum even though he was the pick made after we traded Shaq and Bynum was a skinny high schooler who didn't contribute for a few years. The rest... COME ON MAN!
7 first round picks in 12 years and this is the list?! Some of these guys have been traded more than a pack of cigarettes in an episode of Oz! Ok, but a GM's mettle is tested by his evaluation of talent. What about the 2nd round picks and the trades?
3/4 of the 2nd round picks I couldn't tweet because of character restrictions. The best 2nd round pick to date was probably Luke "I have no back" Walton. Jury is still out on the youngsters we got in the last two years (Ebanks, Caracter and Morris). Trade wise, we traded Shaq for a 1st round pick (Jordan Farmar), Caron Butler, Odom, and Brian Grant. Caron is playing for the Clippers and got a ring last year with the Mavs, LO is in reality TV land traded him for a 1st round pick that we gave up for a fresh pack of Juicy Fruit and a avocado seed, Brian Grant retired 5 minutes after we traded for him. Shaq? Oh, he wont another title with Miami the first year there.
Ok, I'm getting to the "other" trade too. To be fair. Mitch did trade Kwame Brown, Javaris Crittenton, Aaron McKie's contract (cause he sure didn't play) and Marc Gasol, 2 first round picks to his daddy, I mean Jerry West for Pau and 2nd round pick (Ebanks). Pau helped get us to 3 championships (winning 2), but lately has played soft as butter in the playoffs. So those who say the Lakers fleeced the Griz consider we gave up a marquee piece in Marc Gasol plus 2 first round picks--not bad. I still think Jerry was bailing out his protege with the deal.
Here we are on the door step of the NBA draft. Lakers are in pursuit of a trade for Gasol. Rumor is they want a top 10 pick and a player. Not likely to happen so they may get Josh Smith and the 23rd pick. Not the value I'd like, but at this point, let's just get something done! It may be time for Mitch to seek greener pastures. I know, I know 'the Lakers could do much worse than Mitch Kupchak for a GM.' Yea, we could get Michael Jordan running the franchise in the ground...
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
It IS better to give than to receive
I've been so blessed lately to have an opportunity at a dream house. I've stressed over it not because I lack faith, but because I recognize I am so unworthy of God's tremendous blessings he's given me. We say "let go and let God" but how often do we do it? In my case I trust the Lord completely and without hesitation. My issue comes from not knowing His will for me. As much as I love this house and so want to close on it, I can honestly say if it falls through I KNOW it's God's will at work. If it does go through as planned I KNOW that is God's will as well. There's a difference to it--at least to me.
As I mentioned before we've been blessed to be able to do some amazing things this year. We help out at our church, we've visited different family members in various places, taken a few mini vacations and still in the position to get this house. As much as I'm looking forward to moving there the look on my wife and kids faces gives me just as much pleasure and happiness. I had the opportunity to reward my son for doing well in school this last quarter and dramatically picking up his grades and his GPA with a NFL jersey of one of his favorite players. he didn't know it was coming and I was able to surprise him. His expression and gratitude was better than anything I could've gotten for myself. It made my day.
I called my dad yesterday and told him I mailed off a package for him for Father's day and his birthday. He told me he felt bad that I spent money on him since he knows we have some upcoming expenses on the house closing. He wished I didn't feel obligated to get him anything. I told him I haven't missed a Father's day/Birthday as long as I can remember and I'd like to keep that streak going. My dad is very appreciative of the smallest things. He mentioned some golf shirts I got him a couple years ago. He said he only wears them when he's relaxing. It's a way of keeping us in his mind. That really moved me. I had forgotten about the shirts and at the time probably didn't think he would put any significance to them, but the fact that several years later he still sees those as "special" meant a lot to me. It's his gratitude and God's grace that has humbled me in so many ways. I feel honored and blessed to be my dad's son. I feel even more honored that God would allow me to have a relationship with Him. So when I say it is truly better to give than to receive you get my meaning.
As I mentioned before we've been blessed to be able to do some amazing things this year. We help out at our church, we've visited different family members in various places, taken a few mini vacations and still in the position to get this house. As much as I'm looking forward to moving there the look on my wife and kids faces gives me just as much pleasure and happiness. I had the opportunity to reward my son for doing well in school this last quarter and dramatically picking up his grades and his GPA with a NFL jersey of one of his favorite players. he didn't know it was coming and I was able to surprise him. His expression and gratitude was better than anything I could've gotten for myself. It made my day.
I called my dad yesterday and told him I mailed off a package for him for Father's day and his birthday. He told me he felt bad that I spent money on him since he knows we have some upcoming expenses on the house closing. He wished I didn't feel obligated to get him anything. I told him I haven't missed a Father's day/Birthday as long as I can remember and I'd like to keep that streak going. My dad is very appreciative of the smallest things. He mentioned some golf shirts I got him a couple years ago. He said he only wears them when he's relaxing. It's a way of keeping us in his mind. That really moved me. I had forgotten about the shirts and at the time probably didn't think he would put any significance to them, but the fact that several years later he still sees those as "special" meant a lot to me. It's his gratitude and God's grace that has humbled me in so many ways. I feel honored and blessed to be my dad's son. I feel even more honored that God would allow me to have a relationship with Him. So when I say it is truly better to give than to receive you get my meaning.
Tuesday, May 15, 2012
What a difference a year makes? Maybe not
My beloved Lakers got trounced yesterday. Bad. By 29. I'd like to say it hurt deeply and I was surprised, but reality is that's kind of where they are. Last year the Lakers got taken to 6 games by the Hornets who were w/o their 2nd leading scorer. LA played bad and looked bad. Up next was the Mavs. That ended BADLY! Swept in Phil Jax last game as coach. Bynum and Artest lost control and got ejected. They embarrassed the franchise.
Offseason saw a lock out, new head coach brought in unceremoniously. Add in the Chris Paul trade that wasn't. Lamar Odom trade that looked brilliant for the Lakers now.
Lakers are year older, the depth is non existent and their 2nd star (Bynum) is a man-child. Sometimes he man's up and balls, sometimes he acts like a child and pouts. The coach is justly happy to be in the NBA and coaching another superstar and it shows. Kobe has matured but his penchant for patience is wearing thin--justifiably so. I said before finish the season without any big trades and go hunting in the off season. From the looks of last night, the off season is about a week away.
"Secretary, please get the Orlando Magic on the line. Tell them we'll send Bynum for Dwight now--straight up."
Offseason saw a lock out, new head coach brought in unceremoniously. Add in the Chris Paul trade that wasn't. Lamar Odom trade that looked brilliant for the Lakers now.
Lakers are year older, the depth is non existent and their 2nd star (Bynum) is a man-child. Sometimes he man's up and balls, sometimes he acts like a child and pouts. The coach is justly happy to be in the NBA and coaching another superstar and it shows. Kobe has matured but his penchant for patience is wearing thin--justifiably so. I said before finish the season without any big trades and go hunting in the off season. From the looks of last night, the off season is about a week away.
"Secretary, please get the Orlando Magic on the line. Tell them we'll send Bynum for Dwight now--straight up."
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Judging TP
I haven't written anything in a while. Been busy and just not feeling as creative with all the things going on in my life. God continues to bless me and my family daily. Humbles me to tears at times--literally. I was reading an article about Tyrell Pryor on ESPN this morning. The title said "Pryor took money for his family." I thought, 'oh boy here we go again. Can they just leave this guy alone?!' Hasn't he paid enough already?! Begrudgingly I read the article. To my surprise it was a pro-TP article. It was a continuation of what Pryor had gone through at THE Ohio State University. He details that he sold his gold pants (a gold charm given as a reward for the ANNUAL beating of michigan--allowed by the NCAA) for $3000. Granted, the charm isn't worth 3k in gold but the significance of them adds to the value. Now what would an 18 year old do with 3k in his pocket after beating your arch rival in your Freshman year at a major 1A college? He sent it home to pay his mom's back rent (4 months behind) and her gas bill. Let me say that again for dramatic effect. An 18 yr old starting in his freshman year at OSU just beat michigan and got his 1st pair of treasured gold pants as a reward, he sold them for 3K and gave the money (all of it) to his mom to help her and his sister keep a roof over their heads and turn the heat on.
Now don't get me wrong, I fully realize if he took 3k his freshman year, he likely took money for the next two as well. I don't know where it was spent. Likely some still went to his family, some went to him as well. I'm not saying or absolving TP of doing some wrong doing (in the eyes of the NCAA). Athletes know when they go to college what the rules are. They know accepting money is against the rules and could likely lead to disciplinary actions--which it did.
What would you do? A lot of articles and judgements have come out. I'm not going to rehash the whole thing and expose my obvious bias...yes I am! They sold stuff given to them by the NCAA! It's their stuff! It's not like they took jerseys that didn't belong to them or footballs or something NOT given to them. They sold their belongings! For what? Money to help out families. Yes, some money was used for his personal gain, but again it was their stuff! It's like your job giving you a gold watch for 20 years of service. You selling that watch and your job telling you now you have to forfeit a raise because of the money you got for a watch they gave you. It's stupid to me and I wont EVER agree/understand it. That along with the Tuck rule--don't ask...
I digress...My point (before my rant) was many people judged TP w/o getting his side. Without putting themselves in his place. Roger Goodell (the discipline commissioner) suspended him for 5 games in a shorten offseason for the NFL. He delayed the supplemental draft in which he was drafted in. Why? To make a point? Why him and why then? Pete Carrol bolted for the NFL just before the NCAA got a hold of USC for their violations--yet no sanctions for him. Jim Tressell got a consultant job with Indy, yet no sanctions. How many players got kicked off of team transferred to other schools and still had no sanctions? (see: Janoris Jenkins 2012 draft class). I wish I knew Goodell's rationale for TP suspension. Throughout all of this TP has tried to remain positive. Other pundits knock his ability and say he'll never be an NFL QB. Those same pundits lauded Jamarcus Russell and Blaine Gabbert as top echelon draft choices. Gabbert's career is still undecided but not off to a good start. TP got better every year at OSU. Passing %, yards, TD improved every year. He's 6'6" 230 lbs, freakishly fast and athletic, yet he doesn't get a chance. People point to last year and say "he can't pick up the play book." He came to a team in August then got suspended from the facility and coaches staff for the first 5 games. Once he got back, the starting QB went down, traded for Palmer then the starting RB went down. Who's going to have time to coach up a rookie QB who wasn't in camp, no OTAs and missed the first 5 games of the season? No one.
New season. New coaching staff. New playbook. What's TP reaction? "I'm there 6 days a week. haven't gone home in months. I'm on level ground with everyone else. I'm learning the a new system like they are." Well not exactly. Leinart was signed. He was coached by the same OC in Texas so he already knows the system. TP will be fine. he's coachable; a great athlete who's gone through some struggles at a young age and has much to prove to his doubters and judges. Oh by the way, those same draft pundits who said he wouldn't amount to an NFL QB admit at his level of progression in college had he played one more year, he very likely would have been a first round pick with all the QB being taken. Definitely gone before the 3rd round where the Raiders took him a year ago.
we'll see who's laughing a few years from now.
Now don't get me wrong, I fully realize if he took 3k his freshman year, he likely took money for the next two as well. I don't know where it was spent. Likely some still went to his family, some went to him as well. I'm not saying or absolving TP of doing some wrong doing (in the eyes of the NCAA). Athletes know when they go to college what the rules are. They know accepting money is against the rules and could likely lead to disciplinary actions--which it did.
What would you do? A lot of articles and judgements have come out. I'm not going to rehash the whole thing and expose my obvious bias...yes I am! They sold stuff given to them by the NCAA! It's their stuff! It's not like they took jerseys that didn't belong to them or footballs or something NOT given to them. They sold their belongings! For what? Money to help out families. Yes, some money was used for his personal gain, but again it was their stuff! It's like your job giving you a gold watch for 20 years of service. You selling that watch and your job telling you now you have to forfeit a raise because of the money you got for a watch they gave you. It's stupid to me and I wont EVER agree/understand it. That along with the Tuck rule--don't ask...
I digress...My point (before my rant) was many people judged TP w/o getting his side. Without putting themselves in his place. Roger Goodell (the discipline commissioner) suspended him for 5 games in a shorten offseason for the NFL. He delayed the supplemental draft in which he was drafted in. Why? To make a point? Why him and why then? Pete Carrol bolted for the NFL just before the NCAA got a hold of USC for their violations--yet no sanctions for him. Jim Tressell got a consultant job with Indy, yet no sanctions. How many players got kicked off of team transferred to other schools and still had no sanctions? (see: Janoris Jenkins 2012 draft class). I wish I knew Goodell's rationale for TP suspension. Throughout all of this TP has tried to remain positive. Other pundits knock his ability and say he'll never be an NFL QB. Those same pundits lauded Jamarcus Russell and Blaine Gabbert as top echelon draft choices. Gabbert's career is still undecided but not off to a good start. TP got better every year at OSU. Passing %, yards, TD improved every year. He's 6'6" 230 lbs, freakishly fast and athletic, yet he doesn't get a chance. People point to last year and say "he can't pick up the play book." He came to a team in August then got suspended from the facility and coaches staff for the first 5 games. Once he got back, the starting QB went down, traded for Palmer then the starting RB went down. Who's going to have time to coach up a rookie QB who wasn't in camp, no OTAs and missed the first 5 games of the season? No one.
New season. New coaching staff. New playbook. What's TP reaction? "I'm there 6 days a week. haven't gone home in months. I'm on level ground with everyone else. I'm learning the a new system like they are." Well not exactly. Leinart was signed. He was coached by the same OC in Texas so he already knows the system. TP will be fine. he's coachable; a great athlete who's gone through some struggles at a young age and has much to prove to his doubters and judges. Oh by the way, those same draft pundits who said he wouldn't amount to an NFL QB admit at his level of progression in college had he played one more year, he very likely would have been a first round pick with all the QB being taken. Definitely gone before the 3rd round where the Raiders took him a year ago.
we'll see who's laughing a few years from now.
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Everything for a reason
"God doesn't close a door without opening a window."
"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."
"Everything happens for a reason."
We've all heard these before. Probably said them as words of comfort to someone a time or 12. I know I have. You might have even said it to yourself too. The funny thing is it's EASY to say to someone else and easy to think it to yourself when things are good or not that bad. The hard part is to say it with conviction and believe it with the same conviction during the HARD times. I speak from experience again.
I'm here today BECAUSE of the things I've been through--both good and bad. My perspective on life has changed (for the good I believe). Like everyone I've had my share of hard times. Things I may or may not divulge. A lot of personal issues that through the grace of God I've come out of. I didn't have the appreciation then about how it would mold me and make me the person I am. Looking back on some of those things, I can honestly say I wouldn't make the same decisions today had I not gone through those things. I've come to embrace my experiences--the good and the bad knowing God's PERFECT plan was for me to endure them. Even the bad decisions made were all a part of his plan.
As parents you do this daily with your children. From the time their born you begin to teach them. You hold a child when they cry. You give them love and attention. You give them advice they may only need once in their life and you pray they remember it and apply it. Those things are based on our own experiences.
Parents want a better life for their children then what they had. That's not to say you had a bad life but always want more for your children. That's why you make sacrifices with time or finances or whatever is important.
I've been blessed by God with so many opportunities that His grace is overwhelming for me at times. It's when I think back to how much of a knuckle head I've been (putting it mildly) that I am so grateful for Him leading me to where I am today. I'm not talking about me being the mystery winner of the mega millions or anything like that. I'm referring to His blessings for the day to day things that make life FULL. My children's health, having a roof over our heads, being able to take my family on vacations, being able to serve at church, having this opportunity to share my thougths and feelings about my faith with those of you who read this blog. My wonderful family who always supports each other. In particular my cousin's who we're always touching base with each other (James, Tiffany, Shannon, Shawncy, Casey, Raymond, Zandra, my brother Stacey, Hallie, Helen, Teresa, Karl, Bernard, and Joann) to name a few.
If I had any advice to give it would be appreciate the little things, look for the glory of God in all things and use your one and only life to honor the One who gave it to you.
Deuteronomy 8: 17-18:
You may say to yourself, "my power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me." But remember the Lord your God, for it is he who give you the ability to produce wealth...
"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger."
"Everything happens for a reason."
We've all heard these before. Probably said them as words of comfort to someone a time or 12. I know I have. You might have even said it to yourself too. The funny thing is it's EASY to say to someone else and easy to think it to yourself when things are good or not that bad. The hard part is to say it with conviction and believe it with the same conviction during the HARD times. I speak from experience again.
I'm here today BECAUSE of the things I've been through--both good and bad. My perspective on life has changed (for the good I believe). Like everyone I've had my share of hard times. Things I may or may not divulge. A lot of personal issues that through the grace of God I've come out of. I didn't have the appreciation then about how it would mold me and make me the person I am. Looking back on some of those things, I can honestly say I wouldn't make the same decisions today had I not gone through those things. I've come to embrace my experiences--the good and the bad knowing God's PERFECT plan was for me to endure them. Even the bad decisions made were all a part of his plan.
As parents you do this daily with your children. From the time their born you begin to teach them. You hold a child when they cry. You give them love and attention. You give them advice they may only need once in their life and you pray they remember it and apply it. Those things are based on our own experiences.
Parents want a better life for their children then what they had. That's not to say you had a bad life but always want more for your children. That's why you make sacrifices with time or finances or whatever is important.
I've been blessed by God with so many opportunities that His grace is overwhelming for me at times. It's when I think back to how much of a knuckle head I've been (putting it mildly) that I am so grateful for Him leading me to where I am today. I'm not talking about me being the mystery winner of the mega millions or anything like that. I'm referring to His blessings for the day to day things that make life FULL. My children's health, having a roof over our heads, being able to take my family on vacations, being able to serve at church, having this opportunity to share my thougths and feelings about my faith with those of you who read this blog. My wonderful family who always supports each other. In particular my cousin's who we're always touching base with each other (James, Tiffany, Shannon, Shawncy, Casey, Raymond, Zandra, my brother Stacey, Hallie, Helen, Teresa, Karl, Bernard, and Joann) to name a few.
If I had any advice to give it would be appreciate the little things, look for the glory of God in all things and use your one and only life to honor the One who gave it to you.
Deuteronomy 8: 17-18:
You may say to yourself, "my power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me." But remember the Lord your God, for it is he who give you the ability to produce wealth...
Monday, April 23, 2012
Metta World War
Saw the Lakers and Thunder double OT game yesterday. The game was filled with subplots and story lines. Among them: Thunder attempting to get back to the top spot in the West, the Lakers trying to hold onto the 3 spot and clinch the Pacific division. The end of the game talked more about what transpired than what the last week of the NBA still holds
Metta World Peace (aka Ron Artest) had been playing increasingly better in the month of April compared to the rest of the season. MWP was averaging less than double digits in points and rebounds prior to April. Now he was averaging 16 pt/ 9 rebounds per game. This came at a good time for the Lakers with Kobe Bryant missing 7 straight games. The team seemed to gel during that time in his absence going 5-2. A hard fought nationally televised game yesterday saw MWP revert back to Ron-Ron of the Malice in the Palace infamy. MWP celebrating a breakaway steal and dunk did the obligatory chest pound when James Harden got a little too close for comfort. The result was a much publicized vicious elbow to Harden's head. He feel like a stack of bricks. At first glance it looked (to me at least) like a flop. It looked like MWP pushed him out of the way and Harden was just looking for a cheap foul. Nothing could have been further from the truth. Replay clearly shows a vicious hard elbow that got extended. What ensued afterward was most concerning to me.
MWP had been a model citizen with the Lakers. The one time defensive player of the year seemed to be playing well in LA. On Sunday, after a nasty hit on Harden MWP got into his fighting stance when forward Surge Ibaka came charging. Ibaka apparently remembered WHO he was dealing with because he stopped well short of actually engaging MWP. Meanwhile MWP was locked and loaded and gunning for bear. He prodded Ibaka to "come get some." To me that was a different MWP/Ron Artest that the Lakers hadn't seen. While you have to be ready if someone runs up on you--not knowing their intentions. This just seemed different to me.
I think back to when Mike Tyson was at the end of his career and still fighting. He was known to go a little haywire on his opponent...reporters...or anyone else in the vicinity. Mike blamed it on not taking his meds just before fights. He felt it took his edge off--an edge he felt he needed as a competitor--a gladiator. I can't help but think MAYBE Ron (who by his own admission) suffers from mental issues in which he's being treated. Ron's numbers have picked up during April. His aggressiveness Sunday showed a different guy Laker fans haven't seen in the purple and gold.
I'm a die hard Lakers fan--always have been. I'd love nothing more than to get another ring this year and tie Boston for most all time. Not at the expense of another player. I hope Ron isn't sacrificing his mental health for the sake of a game. He appeared to be contrite afterward. I believe him. For a guy who worked hard to get a championship his whole career only to auction the ring off to donate to mental health charities says a lot about his character. I certainly hope James Harden is OK and back playing, but selfishly I'm rooting for my guy--Metta World Peace aka Ron Artest to get himself back where he needs to be. Not for another ring, but because it's the right thing to do.
Metta World Peace (aka Ron Artest) had been playing increasingly better in the month of April compared to the rest of the season. MWP was averaging less than double digits in points and rebounds prior to April. Now he was averaging 16 pt/ 9 rebounds per game. This came at a good time for the Lakers with Kobe Bryant missing 7 straight games. The team seemed to gel during that time in his absence going 5-2. A hard fought nationally televised game yesterday saw MWP revert back to Ron-Ron of the Malice in the Palace infamy. MWP celebrating a breakaway steal and dunk did the obligatory chest pound when James Harden got a little too close for comfort. The result was a much publicized vicious elbow to Harden's head. He feel like a stack of bricks. At first glance it looked (to me at least) like a flop. It looked like MWP pushed him out of the way and Harden was just looking for a cheap foul. Nothing could have been further from the truth. Replay clearly shows a vicious hard elbow that got extended. What ensued afterward was most concerning to me.
MWP had been a model citizen with the Lakers. The one time defensive player of the year seemed to be playing well in LA. On Sunday, after a nasty hit on Harden MWP got into his fighting stance when forward Surge Ibaka came charging. Ibaka apparently remembered WHO he was dealing with because he stopped well short of actually engaging MWP. Meanwhile MWP was locked and loaded and gunning for bear. He prodded Ibaka to "come get some." To me that was a different MWP/Ron Artest that the Lakers hadn't seen. While you have to be ready if someone runs up on you--not knowing their intentions. This just seemed different to me.
I think back to when Mike Tyson was at the end of his career and still fighting. He was known to go a little haywire on his opponent...reporters...or anyone else in the vicinity. Mike blamed it on not taking his meds just before fights. He felt it took his edge off--an edge he felt he needed as a competitor--a gladiator. I can't help but think MAYBE Ron (who by his own admission) suffers from mental issues in which he's being treated. Ron's numbers have picked up during April. His aggressiveness Sunday showed a different guy Laker fans haven't seen in the purple and gold.
I'm a die hard Lakers fan--always have been. I'd love nothing more than to get another ring this year and tie Boston for most all time. Not at the expense of another player. I hope Ron isn't sacrificing his mental health for the sake of a game. He appeared to be contrite afterward. I believe him. For a guy who worked hard to get a championship his whole career only to auction the ring off to donate to mental health charities says a lot about his character. I certainly hope James Harden is OK and back playing, but selfishly I'm rooting for my guy--Metta World Peace aka Ron Artest to get himself back where he needs to be. Not for another ring, but because it's the right thing to do.
Monday, April 16, 2012
Top Center in the NBA
I got home from Myrtle Beach yesterday to catch the end of the Lakers V. Mavs game. This was game #5 Kobe has missed. Granted the Mavs are struggling just to make the 8 seed for the playoffs but it's still a good rivalry. Game went back and forth with the Lakers pulling it out in OT. Some questionable no calls, but that's what home court is about.
Funny thing though on the way to 4 wins in 5 games w/o Kobe. The role players stepped up. Ramon put in 22 and 5 dimes, MWP (aka Ron-Ron) did his thang on defense and chipped in a few on offense. Matt "crazy man" Barnes had a great all around game with defense, rebounds, assists and points. He was close to a triple double. Bynum had a "bad game" with 23 points and 13 boards. Pau was solid as well. Everybody is playing better as a unit. Kobe was coaching them up on the sidelines at each time out. Mike Brown and Kobe looked like they were learning from each other. Scary thought! The Lakers biggest knock has been at PG and lack of depth on their bench. Yesterday the PG was playoff caliber and the role players looked like they were geling for the first time this season.
Don't get me wrong, the Thunder are still the talent in the West but if we keep the 3 seed and the Clips keep the 4, that will be a good match up that the Thunder could lose. Two young and athletic teams going at it. Meanwhile the elder statesmen of the conference (spurs and Lakers) would likely do battle in the 2nd round. Again, a very good match up.
JA Adande wrote an article about the game and put in a little factoid. Dwight Howard is now out with back problems--never good for an NBA player (see Larry Bird, Larry Johnson, Amare Stoudemire). JA shows at this rate Bynum is set to play in more games this year than D12. A first for the big fella who's been ravaged with injuries since coming into the league. In hindsight, the Lakers trades and non-trades seem to be panning out. Odom shipped to Mavs for a first round pick and a trade exception. That pick netted Ramon sessions. Odom hasn't done anything for the Mavs this year and now got Keyshawned for the season. Lakers not trading for D12. Gasol and Bynum keep ballin and the Lakers keep their height advantage. The Lakers still have the trade exception from the Mavs to use in the off season. They also unloaded the hefty contract of Luke Walton and they still hold their amnesty clause to use in the future as well.
Jim Buss was adamant of not trading Bynum. Maybe he knew something we all didn't. My cousin (C3) said the Lakers were the class of the West--called his shot months ago. I thought he was crazy BUT I'm beginning to think he had something there. Maybe he was the one who whispered in Jim Buss' ear about Bynum?! While all eyese are on the East with the Heat and Bulls, quietly the Lakers are making a run of their own. 5 games left (2 with the spurs, 1 with the thunder). The mission is to stay at either the 3 or move to the 2 if we can.
The playoffs should be fun!
Funny thing though on the way to 4 wins in 5 games w/o Kobe. The role players stepped up. Ramon put in 22 and 5 dimes, MWP (aka Ron-Ron) did his thang on defense and chipped in a few on offense. Matt "crazy man" Barnes had a great all around game with defense, rebounds, assists and points. He was close to a triple double. Bynum had a "bad game" with 23 points and 13 boards. Pau was solid as well. Everybody is playing better as a unit. Kobe was coaching them up on the sidelines at each time out. Mike Brown and Kobe looked like they were learning from each other. Scary thought! The Lakers biggest knock has been at PG and lack of depth on their bench. Yesterday the PG was playoff caliber and the role players looked like they were geling for the first time this season.
Don't get me wrong, the Thunder are still the talent in the West but if we keep the 3 seed and the Clips keep the 4, that will be a good match up that the Thunder could lose. Two young and athletic teams going at it. Meanwhile the elder statesmen of the conference (spurs and Lakers) would likely do battle in the 2nd round. Again, a very good match up.
JA Adande wrote an article about the game and put in a little factoid. Dwight Howard is now out with back problems--never good for an NBA player (see Larry Bird, Larry Johnson, Amare Stoudemire). JA shows at this rate Bynum is set to play in more games this year than D12. A first for the big fella who's been ravaged with injuries since coming into the league. In hindsight, the Lakers trades and non-trades seem to be panning out. Odom shipped to Mavs for a first round pick and a trade exception. That pick netted Ramon sessions. Odom hasn't done anything for the Mavs this year and now got Keyshawned for the season. Lakers not trading for D12. Gasol and Bynum keep ballin and the Lakers keep their height advantage. The Lakers still have the trade exception from the Mavs to use in the off season. They also unloaded the hefty contract of Luke Walton and they still hold their amnesty clause to use in the future as well.
Jim Buss was adamant of not trading Bynum. Maybe he knew something we all didn't. My cousin (C3) said the Lakers were the class of the West--called his shot months ago. I thought he was crazy BUT I'm beginning to think he had something there. Maybe he was the one who whispered in Jim Buss' ear about Bynum?! While all eyese are on the East with the Heat and Bulls, quietly the Lakers are making a run of their own. 5 games left (2 with the spurs, 1 with the thunder). The mission is to stay at either the 3 or move to the 2 if we can.
The playoffs should be fun!
Thursday, April 12, 2012
Real Talk
I caught this exchange on ESPN radio yesterday (http://espn.go.com/video/clip?id=7800707). It started with Jalen Rose calling out Skip Bayless who was dogging Russell Westbrook for shooting too much (in his opinion). Jalen brought up Skip's high school b-ball stats. Skip apparently "embellished" a bit about his own skills in a tweet. What ensued was fans gold. Three highly opinionated analysis going at it about what should/should not be considered "over the line." Jalen coming from a pro athlete standpoint, Skip and Stephen A from a journalist's.
Jalen's first point was 'why dog Kwame Brown?' This is near and dear to my heart because I too detested the Lakers getting Kwame Brown. His best contribution to the franchise was being the center piece in the Pau Gasol trade. Jalen's point was there are only 450 jobs in the NBA and he's had one for 10 years making millions. He may not be one of the elite players in the NBA but he's better than non-NBA players. Ironically CC (Cris Carter) agreed. He said "I gotta stack of money I'm putting on Kwame Brown vs. any non-NBA player." Interesting take...
Stephen A and Skip's take was Kwame's numbers suck. His play is sub par and he shouldn't be in the NBA. If you compare him to other Center's in the NBA his salary doesn't match his output and based on peer to peer comparisons he's deserving of the criticism. Again, interesting points...
From there the conversation turned to HOW you criticize someone. Name calling--scrub, waste, Prince James, etc...Jalen's point was you can criticize someones stats, their work ethic and their performance but to call someone out there name or take it further is crossing the line. He contends everyone is human and to talk about them badly like that is crossing the line. Their family is effected by what and how you say things about them and as journalist/media types they need to be more responsible.
Skip/Stephen A contend because he's a public figure making big money he (by default) accepts that part of the career he's chosen. Neither saw it as crossing the line because they get paid to evaluate and report talent.
Now, this is where I jump off their band wagon. The type of money you make or the type of job you have does not give anyone the right to disrespect you. Disagree with you or oppose you--sure! Disrespect, no. It's not in any job description (that I'm aware of) that says because you've agreed to take this position at this pay, public flogging is a given. Now, don't get me wrong I'm not naive to think that certain positions do come with that type of scrutiny--ex President of the US, CEO of major companies, Police Chief, etc...BUT my point it doesn't make it right to disrespect someone. You can vehemently disagree all day long, campaign against them, protest policies, actions, etc...but the name calling and personal attacks are just wrong.
I'll admit that I've done it. Right here on this blog as a matter of fact. My nickname for Pau is "Butta"--sometimes he plays smooth, sometimes he plays soft. I'm not saying its right, but now I have a different perspective on how it affects others. I'm certain being in management I have/still have unflattering nicknames from current/previous employees. I know that I'm not here to make friends but to get a job done. In the end all I want/expect is respect not to be liked. Respected in that what I say gets done the way I want it done. if not there are consequences. The best an athlete could do is deny certain reporters interviews. You can't stop talking to the media entirely because of company rules and they'll get fined for it. But, you understand that going into that career field.
What's my point? Honestly, I don't think I have one today. I'm just giving my opinion on how I saw/heard things yesterday. Will I change what I say and how I act, yea somewhat. As a fan though, I'll still be critical of players. I'll cheer them when they ball and boo them when they suck. I'd end by saying 'maybe it's just me' but I know it's not.
have a great one!
Jalen's first point was 'why dog Kwame Brown?' This is near and dear to my heart because I too detested the Lakers getting Kwame Brown. His best contribution to the franchise was being the center piece in the Pau Gasol trade. Jalen's point was there are only 450 jobs in the NBA and he's had one for 10 years making millions. He may not be one of the elite players in the NBA but he's better than non-NBA players. Ironically CC (Cris Carter) agreed. He said "I gotta stack of money I'm putting on Kwame Brown vs. any non-NBA player." Interesting take...
Stephen A and Skip's take was Kwame's numbers suck. His play is sub par and he shouldn't be in the NBA. If you compare him to other Center's in the NBA his salary doesn't match his output and based on peer to peer comparisons he's deserving of the criticism. Again, interesting points...
From there the conversation turned to HOW you criticize someone. Name calling--scrub, waste, Prince James, etc...Jalen's point was you can criticize someones stats, their work ethic and their performance but to call someone out there name or take it further is crossing the line. He contends everyone is human and to talk about them badly like that is crossing the line. Their family is effected by what and how you say things about them and as journalist/media types they need to be more responsible.
Skip/Stephen A contend because he's a public figure making big money he (by default) accepts that part of the career he's chosen. Neither saw it as crossing the line because they get paid to evaluate and report talent.
Now, this is where I jump off their band wagon. The type of money you make or the type of job you have does not give anyone the right to disrespect you. Disagree with you or oppose you--sure! Disrespect, no. It's not in any job description (that I'm aware of) that says because you've agreed to take this position at this pay, public flogging is a given. Now, don't get me wrong I'm not naive to think that certain positions do come with that type of scrutiny--ex President of the US, CEO of major companies, Police Chief, etc...BUT my point it doesn't make it right to disrespect someone. You can vehemently disagree all day long, campaign against them, protest policies, actions, etc...but the name calling and personal attacks are just wrong.
I'll admit that I've done it. Right here on this blog as a matter of fact. My nickname for Pau is "Butta"--sometimes he plays smooth, sometimes he plays soft. I'm not saying its right, but now I have a different perspective on how it affects others. I'm certain being in management I have/still have unflattering nicknames from current/previous employees. I know that I'm not here to make friends but to get a job done. In the end all I want/expect is respect not to be liked. Respected in that what I say gets done the way I want it done. if not there are consequences. The best an athlete could do is deny certain reporters interviews. You can't stop talking to the media entirely because of company rules and they'll get fined for it. But, you understand that going into that career field.
What's my point? Honestly, I don't think I have one today. I'm just giving my opinion on how I saw/heard things yesterday. Will I change what I say and how I act, yea somewhat. As a fan though, I'll still be critical of players. I'll cheer them when they ball and boo them when they suck. I'd end by saying 'maybe it's just me' but I know it's not.
have a great one!
Tuesday, April 10, 2012
...just not feeling it this year...
Now that Holy week (including Easter) is over, I'm back with some sports takes...I guess. Normally this time of year is one of my favorites. You've got NFL draft and Free Agency going bananas, NBA playoff seeding is heating up--it should be a good time for a sports junky like myself. Usually I've got Twitter opened, checking Rumor Central on ESPN/NFL.com, scouring local sports pages for FA visits, pro days, putting my Draft binder together with the top 10-15 players at each position. I'm scheduling time off to let the draft soak in. 3 glorious days of football, football AND more football. this year, eh, not so much
Why the lack of enthusiasm..my teams are less than inspiring. The Raiders (under new management) APPEAR to be making the right decisions under new GM (former Raider) Reggie McKenzie and new Head Coach Dennis "the menace" Allen. Oakland has no CAP room and 2.3 draft picks this year--none until the end of round 3. The team had to cut lose some BAD contracts and make some solid decisions for starters and depth. Based on what we could pay, it looks solid but only real action will show if it was the right call or not. By not overpaying (typical Raider fashion) and NOT offering the farm (in terms of draft picks) we're setting ourselves up for a bright future...hopefully
The Lakers...SMH...the good, the bad and the ugly! Sometimes they play like world beaters, most times they play like a good And 1 team. Depth is not strong but getting better. The coach is clueless and in awe of his players--bad sign. The GM has his hands tied by the owner's son and shackled by David Stern--the villain--yup still not over how we got jobbed on the CP3 deal. One bright spot, the Lamar Odom trade makes us look like bandits! LO just got the Keyshawn treatment for the year and we're no worse for wear. We parlayed his trade into Ramon Sessions, Bo Bo Johnson and got rid of Luke Walton's contract. Not bad if you ask me. Not great, but not bad either. Not sure which Lakers team shows up from day to day so I have no idea what to expect in the playoffs.
Times like these I think I need to get into a new sport. Maybe baseball? The Indians are a farm team for the Yankees and others, so that's a no. Hockey? Not ready to get into that yet. Soccer? Adult kickball (in my expert opinion)--not happening. Before any of you start with the "it's the most popular sport in the world" take, I DON'T CARE! Running around a field the size of a continent for hours on end only to see 2-3 goals made is not entertaining for me. So take your juice boxes and orange slices elsewhere! oh I forgot, "with all due respect" of course :)
OK, that's all I got today--I know it wasn't much but it's my expert opinion!
Why the lack of enthusiasm..my teams are less than inspiring. The Raiders (under new management) APPEAR to be making the right decisions under new GM (former Raider) Reggie McKenzie and new Head Coach Dennis "the menace" Allen. Oakland has no CAP room and 2.3 draft picks this year--none until the end of round 3. The team had to cut lose some BAD contracts and make some solid decisions for starters and depth. Based on what we could pay, it looks solid but only real action will show if it was the right call or not. By not overpaying (typical Raider fashion) and NOT offering the farm (in terms of draft picks) we're setting ourselves up for a bright future...hopefully
The Lakers...SMH...the good, the bad and the ugly! Sometimes they play like world beaters, most times they play like a good And 1 team. Depth is not strong but getting better. The coach is clueless and in awe of his players--bad sign. The GM has his hands tied by the owner's son and shackled by David Stern--the villain--yup still not over how we got jobbed on the CP3 deal. One bright spot, the Lamar Odom trade makes us look like bandits! LO just got the Keyshawn treatment for the year and we're no worse for wear. We parlayed his trade into Ramon Sessions, Bo Bo Johnson and got rid of Luke Walton's contract. Not bad if you ask me. Not great, but not bad either. Not sure which Lakers team shows up from day to day so I have no idea what to expect in the playoffs.
Times like these I think I need to get into a new sport. Maybe baseball? The Indians are a farm team for the Yankees and others, so that's a no. Hockey? Not ready to get into that yet. Soccer? Adult kickball (in my expert opinion)--not happening. Before any of you start with the "it's the most popular sport in the world" take, I DON'T CARE! Running around a field the size of a continent for hours on end only to see 2-3 goals made is not entertaining for me. So take your juice boxes and orange slices elsewhere! oh I forgot, "with all due respect" of course :)
OK, that's all I got today--I know it wasn't much but it's my expert opinion!
Monday, April 2, 2012
Preacher/Pastor/Teacher
I learned something new at church this weekend. I learned the meaning of Palm Sunday and how it originated. I also learned that Palm Sunday kicks off what is termed by some as "Holy Week." I've never heard the term "Holy Week" before in conjunction with Easter.
We are very blessed to have a wonderful Sr. Pastor at our church (Mecklenburg Community Church). He explains things from the bible and gives the background of that moment so that you can understand the circumstances surrounding the passage. As I was thinking about what to write about this morning I wanted to look up some definitions.
Preacher is defined as someone who gives earnest advice as on religious or moral subjects or the like. A Pastor is defined as a person having spiritual care of a number of persons. Teacher is defined as a person who imparts knowledge or skill.
What's my point? To be an effective Pastor or Preacher (whichever you want to call it) you have to incorporate elements of all three words effectively. In my experience too many times you find those on the pulpit with only part of the tools needed. I've sat in on sermons at various churches where the "preacher" advocated yelling at his spouse. I've sat in on sermons where "pastors" talked the talk but didn't walk the walk in terms of what they were preaching to the church. Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to be negative or take shots at other places. I'm merely saying when I decided to explore religion again, I did so with my eyes wide open. I was previously one of Jehovah's Witnesses. I learned my basis of the bible from them. From there I compared other religions, churches, and preachers. I always entered as a skeptic. It wasn't until I started going to "Meck" that I became a "listener."
I believe everyone should have something to believe in. Having true faith and love of God in your life is something immeasurable. Pay attention to what you listen to. When I told my dad about my new found faith he warned me "follow the Word, not the man." In other words, make sure it's God's message that you're listening to and not just following the Pastor. Why? Because we're ALL imperfect and we all sin--Pastors included. Sometimes we forget that but that's one of the things that our Sr. Pastor (Jim) preaches. He includes himself when he talks about the stumbles and challenges we face on our journey to Christendom. Refreshing to hear. He preaches about God's love and His forgiveness and how much He wants to have a relationship with us. When your view of God is one who is loving and just and gracious and merciful it gives you a sense of hope. It makes you want to learn more.
I had a chance to do an interview for my church. They asked me about my spiritual journey and my decision to get baptized. It played at the church last week and I've gotten some really nice comments about it. Jim came up to me Saturday and said 'thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony.' I was speechless. Here it is the Sr. Pastor who (to me) was responsible for getting me back into a relationship with God was thanking me. I wish I would have told him, 'no, thank you. Your words spoke to me. God's blessing is clearly on you and because of that it had enabled me to enter into a relationship with God, I honestly never knew existed."
God puts people in our lives for a reason. It rarely clear up front why they're there, but if you reflect, you can pull out the reason why they're in your life. My wife found this church "on an accident." It took me 2 years before I decided to even come. It took me another year before I went all in. Along the way, I recognize moments and people who helped me on my spiritual journey--for them and for God I am eternally grateful. For some they consider me a "goody too-shoes". I wear that as a badge of honor. For those who knew me, know that I am differnt. For those that know me know, please know that I'm sincere in my words and deeds. I feel the need to share my spiritual journey with any and everybody who will listen. Mainly because I got the Word because my wife found a church while looking for the post office. She guilted me into going to Easter service. Jim gave me biblical knowledge that I could understand and God touched my heart to attend my first service at Meck in August 2010 then getting baptized June 11, 2011 and joining the church as an official member December 2011. I love the Lord and the relationship I have with Him. I SO want that for everybody I know and meet. So if you talk to me, just know I'll share some of the joy He's given me with you. You never know who you affect with a word or deed in this life. God puts people in your path for a reason.
God bless--reflect on Holy Week
We are very blessed to have a wonderful Sr. Pastor at our church (Mecklenburg Community Church). He explains things from the bible and gives the background of that moment so that you can understand the circumstances surrounding the passage. As I was thinking about what to write about this morning I wanted to look up some definitions.
Preacher is defined as someone who gives earnest advice as on religious or moral subjects or the like. A Pastor is defined as a person having spiritual care of a number of persons. Teacher is defined as a person who imparts knowledge or skill.
What's my point? To be an effective Pastor or Preacher (whichever you want to call it) you have to incorporate elements of all three words effectively. In my experience too many times you find those on the pulpit with only part of the tools needed. I've sat in on sermons at various churches where the "preacher" advocated yelling at his spouse. I've sat in on sermons where "pastors" talked the talk but didn't walk the walk in terms of what they were preaching to the church. Don't get me wrong, I'm not here to be negative or take shots at other places. I'm merely saying when I decided to explore religion again, I did so with my eyes wide open. I was previously one of Jehovah's Witnesses. I learned my basis of the bible from them. From there I compared other religions, churches, and preachers. I always entered as a skeptic. It wasn't until I started going to "Meck" that I became a "listener."
I believe everyone should have something to believe in. Having true faith and love of God in your life is something immeasurable. Pay attention to what you listen to. When I told my dad about my new found faith he warned me "follow the Word, not the man." In other words, make sure it's God's message that you're listening to and not just following the Pastor. Why? Because we're ALL imperfect and we all sin--Pastors included. Sometimes we forget that but that's one of the things that our Sr. Pastor (Jim) preaches. He includes himself when he talks about the stumbles and challenges we face on our journey to Christendom. Refreshing to hear. He preaches about God's love and His forgiveness and how much He wants to have a relationship with us. When your view of God is one who is loving and just and gracious and merciful it gives you a sense of hope. It makes you want to learn more.
I had a chance to do an interview for my church. They asked me about my spiritual journey and my decision to get baptized. It played at the church last week and I've gotten some really nice comments about it. Jim came up to me Saturday and said 'thank you for sharing such a powerful testimony.' I was speechless. Here it is the Sr. Pastor who (to me) was responsible for getting me back into a relationship with God was thanking me. I wish I would have told him, 'no, thank you. Your words spoke to me. God's blessing is clearly on you and because of that it had enabled me to enter into a relationship with God, I honestly never knew existed."
God puts people in our lives for a reason. It rarely clear up front why they're there, but if you reflect, you can pull out the reason why they're in your life. My wife found this church "on an accident." It took me 2 years before I decided to even come. It took me another year before I went all in. Along the way, I recognize moments and people who helped me on my spiritual journey--for them and for God I am eternally grateful. For some they consider me a "goody too-shoes". I wear that as a badge of honor. For those who knew me, know that I am differnt. For those that know me know, please know that I'm sincere in my words and deeds. I feel the need to share my spiritual journey with any and everybody who will listen. Mainly because I got the Word because my wife found a church while looking for the post office. She guilted me into going to Easter service. Jim gave me biblical knowledge that I could understand and God touched my heart to attend my first service at Meck in August 2010 then getting baptized June 11, 2011 and joining the church as an official member December 2011. I love the Lord and the relationship I have with Him. I SO want that for everybody I know and meet. So if you talk to me, just know I'll share some of the joy He's given me with you. You never know who you affect with a word or deed in this life. God puts people in your path for a reason.
God bless--reflect on Holy Week
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Untitled....
I was just thinking the other night about how many different things in my life over time has lead me to be here, in this place doing what I'm doing right now. Let me explain. I was thinking about some of those movies that feature time machines like Butterfly Effect, Time Travelers Wife and of course Back to the Future. All of them have at least one thing in common--if you change one part of your past, no matter how small it has a ripple effect on everything! The present as you know would be different. Of course Hollywood wanted to make it entertaining so there were dramatic changes to life that cause these great ripple effects.
It got me thinking about my life and again how I arrived at the life I have. If you would have told me just 4 years ago that I'd be waist deep in the church, volunteering every Saturday and engrossed in the Word every opportunity I get, I would've sold you some swamp land. It wouldn't have been that big of a stretch for me to believe I would be in Carolina or that I would have the job I have because those were all things I planned at some point. I'd have been surprised about some other things though--keeping that to myself right now.
Most people if asked if they could go back and make 1 change in their life it would likely be to fix a mistake you made or forgo a traumatic event. A couple of years ago I'd probably be right there with you. But in the last few years I've come to better understand and embrace the fact that God's plan for me had already been laid out. All the "issues" I dealt with in the past have actually shaped me to the person I am today. In many cases I can honestly say had I not gone through some of those rough times I would not have the knowledge or appreciation for certain things I have today. Still, like anyone I would make a change. Small or otherwise I'd have spent more time getting to know my oldest brother Maurice II when he was still at home. Reese (as we called him) was a bit of a loner. He left home when I was a sophomore in high school. After living in New York for a couple of years Reese just up and left. No contact with anyone in the family. This isn't like one of those disappeared without a trace type stories. No, from time to time some people in the family have seen him or heard from him, but it was merely by accident. Reese chose to cut ties with all of his family for reasons only he could answer. Like most people I've done some sleuthing to try and find him. I checked Facebook and Google--some hits but considering I last saw him over 25 years ago, I don't know if I would recognize him. I think he's out there--living his life. I wish I took the time to get closer to him so he would want to keep in touch. Not sure how much of a "ripple effect" that would have had on my life. Reese was always good with kids. I really think he would love my kids and my nieces and nephew if he got a chance to know them. I bet he has a family of his own and I'd love to meet them. I've come to grips that Reese has chosen not keep in touch with anyone. I felt the need to find him even more after our mom passed away in December 2010. It would have been nice to talk to him--to reminisce about times with mom, but he made the choice.
I guess if I've learned anything about Reese being gone it's the fact that I can't change other people's choices. You have to live for the here and now. You can't get back the past you can only make better decisions for the present and future. You get one life--no do overs. Make the most of it by honor God in all things.
Be blessed!
It got me thinking about my life and again how I arrived at the life I have. If you would have told me just 4 years ago that I'd be waist deep in the church, volunteering every Saturday and engrossed in the Word every opportunity I get, I would've sold you some swamp land. It wouldn't have been that big of a stretch for me to believe I would be in Carolina or that I would have the job I have because those were all things I planned at some point. I'd have been surprised about some other things though--keeping that to myself right now.
Most people if asked if they could go back and make 1 change in their life it would likely be to fix a mistake you made or forgo a traumatic event. A couple of years ago I'd probably be right there with you. But in the last few years I've come to better understand and embrace the fact that God's plan for me had already been laid out. All the "issues" I dealt with in the past have actually shaped me to the person I am today. In many cases I can honestly say had I not gone through some of those rough times I would not have the knowledge or appreciation for certain things I have today. Still, like anyone I would make a change. Small or otherwise I'd have spent more time getting to know my oldest brother Maurice II when he was still at home. Reese (as we called him) was a bit of a loner. He left home when I was a sophomore in high school. After living in New York for a couple of years Reese just up and left. No contact with anyone in the family. This isn't like one of those disappeared without a trace type stories. No, from time to time some people in the family have seen him or heard from him, but it was merely by accident. Reese chose to cut ties with all of his family for reasons only he could answer. Like most people I've done some sleuthing to try and find him. I checked Facebook and Google--some hits but considering I last saw him over 25 years ago, I don't know if I would recognize him. I think he's out there--living his life. I wish I took the time to get closer to him so he would want to keep in touch. Not sure how much of a "ripple effect" that would have had on my life. Reese was always good with kids. I really think he would love my kids and my nieces and nephew if he got a chance to know them. I bet he has a family of his own and I'd love to meet them. I've come to grips that Reese has chosen not keep in touch with anyone. I felt the need to find him even more after our mom passed away in December 2010. It would have been nice to talk to him--to reminisce about times with mom, but he made the choice.
I guess if I've learned anything about Reese being gone it's the fact that I can't change other people's choices. You have to live for the here and now. You can't get back the past you can only make better decisions for the present and future. You get one life--no do overs. Make the most of it by honor God in all things.
Be blessed!
Friday, March 23, 2012
Cream rises to the top...
Funny, when the NBA season started one of the biggest headlines was how Stern screwed the Lakers over in the Chris Paul trade--yea I said it! The "Lob City" clippers were the toast of the town. No longer the Lakers little brother with the gimpy leg and no jump shot. Lakers struggled, Clippers surged...that was then, THIS IS NOW!
All of a sudden Blob City is claiming the coach is the problem for the losing streak. The coach lost the team already. WHAT? Did I miss something? I thought the clippers were headed to the championship? Lob City! Clips and Heat...right?
OK, OK, even I said "the clippers were the best team in LA" (see my blog for Lakers at the trade deadline). I also said we didn't need to make a big trade either--I was right about that. The Sessions kid turned out better than I thought and we DID get rid of Luke Walton's contract. Fast forward to today (March 23rd) and the Lakers are 2 games out of 2nd place in the West. They've swept the Mavs so far going 3-0 against them, they've got good, solid PG play from Blake and Sessions and poised to make a run. Be cautious though. Runs too early tend to fizzle teams out. I'm hoping that championship pedigree with Mamba, Bynum and Butta (AKA Pau) will keep us on a steady pace.
I'm still not convinced (on March 23rd) that the Lakers can win a championship this year, or even come out of the west beating the Thunder. BUT, I reserve the right to change my mind...cause that's what I do.
Just my expert opinion though :)
All of a sudden Blob City is claiming the coach is the problem for the losing streak. The coach lost the team already. WHAT? Did I miss something? I thought the clippers were headed to the championship? Lob City! Clips and Heat...right?
OK, OK, even I said "the clippers were the best team in LA" (see my blog for Lakers at the trade deadline). I also said we didn't need to make a big trade either--I was right about that. The Sessions kid turned out better than I thought and we DID get rid of Luke Walton's contract. Fast forward to today (March 23rd) and the Lakers are 2 games out of 2nd place in the West. They've swept the Mavs so far going 3-0 against them, they've got good, solid PG play from Blake and Sessions and poised to make a run. Be cautious though. Runs too early tend to fizzle teams out. I'm hoping that championship pedigree with Mamba, Bynum and Butta (AKA Pau) will keep us on a steady pace.
I'm still not convinced (on March 23rd) that the Lakers can win a championship this year, or even come out of the west beating the Thunder. BUT, I reserve the right to change my mind...cause that's what I do.
Just my expert opinion though :)
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
NFL and punishment
Let me start by saying, I'm biased on this topic, but it's my blog, my opinion and I'm a'right with that!
The NFL handed down punishment today for "Bounty-Ball." For those who don't follow the sport and know what this is, quite simply it's the New Orleans Saints who (over the course of 3 years including a Super Bowl winning year) paid players an incentive to "knock out, cart off the field, or make harder than normal hits" on opposing players and typically an added incentive for the other teams star offensive player (like Brett Favre, Aaron Rodgers, Peyton Manning, etc...). This was initiated by the teams Defensive Coordinator, Greg Williams. We're talking 10's of thousands of dollars over the course of a game, season, and especially playoffs. The head coach and general manager as well as some assistant coaches were aware and in some cases may have participated. Football is a violent sport. If we're being honest, that is part of the appeal for most fans. For men in particular it's part of the machismo that you associate with it. It's our version of a modern day gladiator arena with civility--no casualties: at least on the field.
The NFL came down harder than most experts and fans thought would happen. The head coach was suspended for an entire season, the GM 1/2 a season, an assistant 6 games, the initiator Greg Williams got an indefinite suspension lasting at least a full season and the Saints team lost 2 2nd round picks. Severe but by all accounts appropriate.
Several years ago, the New England Patriots were caught during a game filming their opposing teams sideline. By all accounts they were able to see plays being called, spy on personnel and other strategic advantages. They were caught by a former employee who was now the head coach of the opposing team. He knew what was going on because he was involved when he worked for the team. The investigation showed the team had a library of tapes they've compiled over the years. The punishment? The team lost 1 first round draft pick and the coach was fined $500,000 (he was making over $5 million per season at the time).
At first you may think "that's two different things. Paying players to go out and lay wood to a guy on the field is different than taping a team's sideline." If you look at the definition of "cheat", "advantage" and "bounty" see if you feel the same.
ad·van·tage: A condition or circumstance that puts one in a favorable or superior position.
Cheat: Act dishonestly or unfairly in order to gain an advantage, esp. in a game or examination
Bounty: A reward, inducement, or payment, especially one given by a government for acts deemed beneficial to the state...
In the NFL if you take a banned substance you get a 4 game suspension--rationale is you could be potentially getting an undue advantage over others.
If you place a bounty on other players for knocking star players out of the game, there's a 6 game to an indefinite suspension, loss of draft picks, and the result of millions of dollars in lost pay for suspended coaches (players involved have not been suspended...yet)
If you are the New England Patriots and get caught filming your opposing teams illegally over the course of years in 'order to gain an advantage, give yourself conditions favorable' than your opponent...you get a loss of 1 draft pick and a $500K fine...
My disclaimer: As a Raiders fan we got jobbed with the Tuck Rule: cost my team a chance at another Super Bowl and the Patriots spring boarded to their first of 3 in 4 years. Yea I think they get favorable treatment, but for the life of me I don't know why.
There are many ways to affect someones livelihood. If you take a banned substance that will make you stronger and faster than me who isn't, then you have a better chance of taking my job. If you know what play or personnel I'm putting in (offense or defense) you have a better chance of being successful against me and taking away winning opportunities from me. If you incentivize others to take cheap or borderline shots at me or people who help me do my job, you affect me irrevocably.
Two wrongs don't make a right, but inconsistency causes division. Maybe it's just me!
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
Faith
I'll warn you now, this post is about my faith and belief in God. If you're looking for a sports take or just something amusing, I'm not on that today. I feel the need to put this down for the record...
If you have a strong faith, believe in God and talk to Him in prayer on a regular basis you can likely relate to my post. I start every day with a prayer. I go to a quiet place in my house or wherever I may be, fall to my knees and begin by thanking God for allowing me for another day of life. It's part of what I do everyday, even more so than that regular cup of coffee you get. I also pray throughout the day--different times for different things. Sometimes just a prayer of thanks, other times for strength or wisdom or patience. I always believe that God answers my prayers. He does so in His own way and in His own time. On rare occassions though there are times when I'm praying to Him and it feels like He's revealing his answer to me while I'm praying. For me it comes in the form of a conversation. It doesn't happen that often but yesterday while praying it did.
I was pouring out my heart to God about something that's been on my mind (not going to get into details). At the moment I asked for His guidance on the matter I felt like He gave me a series of questions to evaluate my life with. It was mind blowing to say the least! I felt like God presented to me my situation in a different light and asked me if I can honestly tell Him I was handling it as a Christian man or how I felt He would want me to handle it. I was humbled--quick. As I began to ask more questions I still felt His presence and Him giving me guidance only a loving parent could. As I said it was humbling but a great sense of calm and understanding came over me. Honestly unless you've had a similar experience it's hard to explain.
I felt it important to post this because we often pray to God for things that may or may not be in His will for us. We tend to want things based on our own schedule. When we come to realize and embrace the FACT that God has His own schedule and His own plan for us (not to mention the plan and the timing are always perfect) we benefit so much more. How often could you go to a good friend that you've done something against or repeatedly made mistakes with and yet they still embrace you; genuinely want the best for you and forgive you when you show true repentance? I don't think I could (at this point: still working on me). That's how God is. We sin against him daily, yet with a contrite heart and asking Him for forgiveness He grants it to us and allows us to have a relationship with Him. If that doesn't show love, mercy, grace and kindness, I don't know what does!
For those of you who kept reading past the first line or two, I hope this brings you comfort and peace knowing God loves you. If you're searching for a way to get into a relationship with Him, go to Him in prayer RIGHT NOW! Tell him what's in your heart--leave nothing out. Ask Him for forgiveness, for His grace, for His love and for wisdom to know His will for you. GUARANTEED He'll show up. I speak from experience.
God bless
If you have a strong faith, believe in God and talk to Him in prayer on a regular basis you can likely relate to my post. I start every day with a prayer. I go to a quiet place in my house or wherever I may be, fall to my knees and begin by thanking God for allowing me for another day of life. It's part of what I do everyday, even more so than that regular cup of coffee you get. I also pray throughout the day--different times for different things. Sometimes just a prayer of thanks, other times for strength or wisdom or patience. I always believe that God answers my prayers. He does so in His own way and in His own time. On rare occassions though there are times when I'm praying to Him and it feels like He's revealing his answer to me while I'm praying. For me it comes in the form of a conversation. It doesn't happen that often but yesterday while praying it did.
I was pouring out my heart to God about something that's been on my mind (not going to get into details). At the moment I asked for His guidance on the matter I felt like He gave me a series of questions to evaluate my life with. It was mind blowing to say the least! I felt like God presented to me my situation in a different light and asked me if I can honestly tell Him I was handling it as a Christian man or how I felt He would want me to handle it. I was humbled--quick. As I began to ask more questions I still felt His presence and Him giving me guidance only a loving parent could. As I said it was humbling but a great sense of calm and understanding came over me. Honestly unless you've had a similar experience it's hard to explain.
I felt it important to post this because we often pray to God for things that may or may not be in His will for us. We tend to want things based on our own schedule. When we come to realize and embrace the FACT that God has His own schedule and His own plan for us (not to mention the plan and the timing are always perfect) we benefit so much more. How often could you go to a good friend that you've done something against or repeatedly made mistakes with and yet they still embrace you; genuinely want the best for you and forgive you when you show true repentance? I don't think I could (at this point: still working on me). That's how God is. We sin against him daily, yet with a contrite heart and asking Him for forgiveness He grants it to us and allows us to have a relationship with Him. If that doesn't show love, mercy, grace and kindness, I don't know what does!
For those of you who kept reading past the first line or two, I hope this brings you comfort and peace knowing God loves you. If you're searching for a way to get into a relationship with Him, go to Him in prayer RIGHT NOW! Tell him what's in your heart--leave nothing out. Ask Him for forgiveness, for His grace, for His love and for wisdom to know His will for you. GUARANTEED He'll show up. I speak from experience.
God bless
Monday, March 19, 2012
The Decision II
I didn't intend on blogging today. I also didn't think we'd get the most anticipated decision since...well.."the Decision". But, here we are, and from all accounts (Mort and Schefter) Peyton has decided on the broncos. Now, as a Raider fan...let me fix that, as a DIE HARD, bleed Silver and Black Raider fan, this pains me! Anybody of any consequence going to 'the enemy' is a bad thing for me. The broncos going out and convincing what's being called the 'greatest free agent in the NFL ever' for their starting QB position is amazing.
Tebow-mania took the NFL by storm last year. My personal opinion of Tebow is he's a great leader, hard worker and determination like no other. Those skills/attributes alone will get you far in any given profession. However in pro football, you still have to have those other skills if you want to be successful as a QB. Not if you want to play in the league, or stay in the league, but if you want to be successfull. The broncos (if the reports are true) intend on trading Tebow once Manning signs. That alone says volumes about what they think of his potential in developing into a successfull NFL QB.
Tebow counts for less than 2 million/yr. Who better to learn the position from than Peyton--if they thought he could develop. By signing "the biggest FA ever" it softens the blow for die hard bronco fans who drink the Tebow Kool Aid. Smart move on their part--if they're right about Peyton and Tebow.
Peyton isn't a guarantee. Consider he had 4 neck surgeries that kept him out all year. He's going to be playing in a cold weather stadium wtihout a dome. The offensive line for denver is young and suspect. Running game is inconsistent and the WR are young and thin for depth. Reggie Wayne, Garcon, Gonzales are signed with other teams. Dallas Clark is still available and likely will sign with them--I'm guessing. denver's defense is stout--no question. HOWEVA (in my Stephen A Smith voice) denver's DC is now our Head Coach. So that comes with some change as well. So denver signs Peyton, trades Tebow, what happens if Peyton gets injured? What if he goes through training camp and has a set back? his contract will be incentive ladden, but the broncos have all their offensive eggs in that basket. What if's are always interesting. Doesn't mean it'll be a factor but expect all the "experts" to pose the question.
why not the other teams?
Peyton passed up the chance to play for the niners (who in my opinion was the best option to win early and often). Consider Jim Harbaugh is a control freak. What are the chances he and Peyton would knock heads on how the offense is run with a former QB as the HC? That likely played a big factor in his decision. I think more so than worrying about playing against little brother with a chance to go to the super bowl on the line.
No Titans either. With the Titans he had his best scouting done since he's been in the AFC south. Only real contender would have been the Texans coming off a franchise best year. They did lose their top defensive guy in Williams but HOU looked poised to be the top dog in the division for a while. Playing against his colts MAY have been the biggest NEGATIVE for Peyton here. He had an amicable divorce with the colts, not a contentious one. That may have been the big factor for not going to the Titans.
So here we are. The "unofficial" official choice of Peyton Manning. I doubt he holds his conference at a boys/girls club with a tablecloth looking shirt being interviewed by Jim Gray, but the cats already out of the bag too so the anticipation is somewhat subdued too. NCAA will take a back seat for the next two days. The pressure's on you now denver! You got the big dog, let's see what you can do with him. As for my Raiders? We'll be ready!
...just my expert opinion...
Tebow-mania took the NFL by storm last year. My personal opinion of Tebow is he's a great leader, hard worker and determination like no other. Those skills/attributes alone will get you far in any given profession. However in pro football, you still have to have those other skills if you want to be successful as a QB. Not if you want to play in the league, or stay in the league, but if you want to be successfull. The broncos (if the reports are true) intend on trading Tebow once Manning signs. That alone says volumes about what they think of his potential in developing into a successfull NFL QB.
Tebow counts for less than 2 million/yr. Who better to learn the position from than Peyton--if they thought he could develop. By signing "the biggest FA ever" it softens the blow for die hard bronco fans who drink the Tebow Kool Aid. Smart move on their part--if they're right about Peyton and Tebow.
Peyton isn't a guarantee. Consider he had 4 neck surgeries that kept him out all year. He's going to be playing in a cold weather stadium wtihout a dome. The offensive line for denver is young and suspect. Running game is inconsistent and the WR are young and thin for depth. Reggie Wayne, Garcon, Gonzales are signed with other teams. Dallas Clark is still available and likely will sign with them--I'm guessing. denver's defense is stout--no question. HOWEVA (in my Stephen A Smith voice) denver's DC is now our Head Coach. So that comes with some change as well. So denver signs Peyton, trades Tebow, what happens if Peyton gets injured? What if he goes through training camp and has a set back? his contract will be incentive ladden, but the broncos have all their offensive eggs in that basket. What if's are always interesting. Doesn't mean it'll be a factor but expect all the "experts" to pose the question.
why not the other teams?
Peyton passed up the chance to play for the niners (who in my opinion was the best option to win early and often). Consider Jim Harbaugh is a control freak. What are the chances he and Peyton would knock heads on how the offense is run with a former QB as the HC? That likely played a big factor in his decision. I think more so than worrying about playing against little brother with a chance to go to the super bowl on the line.
No Titans either. With the Titans he had his best scouting done since he's been in the AFC south. Only real contender would have been the Texans coming off a franchise best year. They did lose their top defensive guy in Williams but HOU looked poised to be the top dog in the division for a while. Playing against his colts MAY have been the biggest NEGATIVE for Peyton here. He had an amicable divorce with the colts, not a contentious one. That may have been the big factor for not going to the Titans.
So here we are. The "unofficial" official choice of Peyton Manning. I doubt he holds his conference at a boys/girls club with a tablecloth looking shirt being interviewed by Jim Gray, but the cats already out of the bag too so the anticipation is somewhat subdued too. NCAA will take a back seat for the next two days. The pressure's on you now denver! You got the big dog, let's see what you can do with him. As for my Raiders? We'll be ready!
...just my expert opinion...
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
NFL Free Agency--Let's get to it!
I read a great line this morning from NFL/ESPN contributer Adam Schefter: "The first few days of NFL free agency is like shopping at Neiman Marcus. After that it's like shopping at Target." Man that is so true! If you've got the money (cap space) why not go out and get you a big money FA?! Fact is proven NFL talent is USUALLY less of a gamble than the draft. You've already got a body of work against the best of the best. Most times you know how they'll fit in your system--it's high percentage (mostly).
Round up
Reggie Wayne--Indy Jason Campbell--CHI Cortland F--Rams
V Jax--Bucs Pierre Garcon/Josh Morgan--Skins Robert Meachem--SD
Smoke screens
Peyton to the Dolphins makes the most sense right? He has a home in Miami, Reggie Wayne wants to sign with Miami. They have a good defense, good o-line, good WR target in B Marshall and a solid running game. First trip Peyton took? He flew from Miami to Denver. Who saw that coming?! Next stop was Arizona. Now, B Marshall gets traded to Chicago, Reggie Wayne re-signs with Indy (nobody saw that coming) and Peyton is on his way to meet the Titans. FA kicks off and you get all these big money deals done in hours! How is that if you're not supposed to be able to negotiate until FA begins? TAMPERING! Can't say that though...but it's true!
My Rant
My beloved Raiders didn't make a splash. In all honesty I didn't expect one. We've got cap problems (due to bad contracts) and we don't have a lot of draft picks (due to bad decisions). That's cool. We finished tied for the AFC West lead with a ton of injuries. Those players are back and healthy, a new regime, including a defensive oriented head coach we stole from the enemy. The GM is a former Raider and learned from a very good system in GB. We've got a lot going in a positive direction. STILL every Raider fan (including myself) wanted/wants more. That's natural. We tend to live out our lives through our sports teams. It's a way we identify ourselves and our passions. It plucks my nerves to no end when you get the person who wants to correct you when you say "may team did...or we (refering to my team) won this ..." THAT GUY wants to point out to you "you're not on that team. You don't play for them. Why do you say 'my team' or 'we." UUUGGGHHH!!!! If I want to say my team or we that's my business. Believe me bank account and my body confirm to me DAILY that I don't play pro sports nor am I an owner. TRUST! Now that I'm on this rant let me take my shot at "why do you wear sports jerseys?" guy. I love my jerseys. I got upwards of 20. I wear all of them. Why? Because I do and I bought them with my money while minding my OWN business. Again, the jersey/t-shirt is how you connect with a team. To me it's no different than buying certain name brands of clothes, the latest cell phone or whatever it is. It's your choice in what you value. I'm getting a bit off topic but I think you get my point. If you don't here's a summary.
Don't let anyone dictate to you what you should/should not feel, value or do. It's your life and YOU are held accountable for how you live it and what you do with it--not those Jackwagons who, in all honesty are trying to impose their thinking on you.
...or is it just me?
Round up
Reggie Wayne--Indy Jason Campbell--CHI Cortland F--Rams
V Jax--Bucs Pierre Garcon/Josh Morgan--Skins Robert Meachem--SD
Smoke screens
Peyton to the Dolphins makes the most sense right? He has a home in Miami, Reggie Wayne wants to sign with Miami. They have a good defense, good o-line, good WR target in B Marshall and a solid running game. First trip Peyton took? He flew from Miami to Denver. Who saw that coming?! Next stop was Arizona. Now, B Marshall gets traded to Chicago, Reggie Wayne re-signs with Indy (nobody saw that coming) and Peyton is on his way to meet the Titans. FA kicks off and you get all these big money deals done in hours! How is that if you're not supposed to be able to negotiate until FA begins? TAMPERING! Can't say that though...but it's true!
My Rant
My beloved Raiders didn't make a splash. In all honesty I didn't expect one. We've got cap problems (due to bad contracts) and we don't have a lot of draft picks (due to bad decisions). That's cool. We finished tied for the AFC West lead with a ton of injuries. Those players are back and healthy, a new regime, including a defensive oriented head coach we stole from the enemy. The GM is a former Raider and learned from a very good system in GB. We've got a lot going in a positive direction. STILL every Raider fan (including myself) wanted/wants more. That's natural. We tend to live out our lives through our sports teams. It's a way we identify ourselves and our passions. It plucks my nerves to no end when you get the person who wants to correct you when you say "may team did...or we (refering to my team) won this ..." THAT GUY wants to point out to you "you're not on that team. You don't play for them. Why do you say 'my team' or 'we." UUUGGGHHH!!!! If I want to say my team or we that's my business. Believe me bank account and my body confirm to me DAILY that I don't play pro sports nor am I an owner. TRUST! Now that I'm on this rant let me take my shot at "why do you wear sports jerseys?" guy. I love my jerseys. I got upwards of 20. I wear all of them. Why? Because I do and I bought them with my money while minding my OWN business. Again, the jersey/t-shirt is how you connect with a team. To me it's no different than buying certain name brands of clothes, the latest cell phone or whatever it is. It's your choice in what you value. I'm getting a bit off topic but I think you get my point. If you don't here's a summary.
Don't let anyone dictate to you what you should/should not feel, value or do. It's your life and YOU are held accountable for how you live it and what you do with it--not those Jackwagons who, in all honesty are trying to impose their thinking on you.
...or is it just me?
Monday, March 12, 2012
Patience and time
How many times have you made an impulse buy only to have buyers remorse later? What about planning and planning for a purchase or a vacation or something only to find out your finely detailed plan missed a thing or two that's now throwing a monkey wrench in your program. Yep, I've been there a time or hundred.
We're looking to buy a house this year. I've been planning it for about 2 years now. My original plan was to begin looking sometime around now or next month with an eye on moving sometime in June. HOWEVA, I made a classic mistake--started looking way too soon. Some things opened up in December and I figured I'd take a look, "just to get a gauge for what's out there." I had a plan of course. It was well thought out and this was just a look and see type thing. As with all major decisions, I took it to prayer. Knowing I'm getting God involved increases the success--as long as I don't screw it up. We started looking in December and kicked it up a notch in January. We found 2 VERY nice homes we liked--a lot. Timing wasn't right. We're still under contract where we're leasing and while both houses are still in the same school district, the busing issue is also a factor. We've had some family issues to take care of (and some are still on going). To top is all off we hit a snag with financing.
Looking at all these things popping up, it had me thinking "why am I rushing my time table for something so big? Didn't I take it to prayer? Surely God would have answered me by now?" Fact is God's been there all along. The timings not right--how do I know? Because God's plan is perfect. His timing is perfect. It's never late or wrong--truth. MY timing and actions were flawed. I got caught up in the here and now and not focused on what He has in store for me. This "issues popping up" were God's way of telling me now is not the time.
We hear people say all the time "Let go and let God." For those of faith, it's easy to take it to prayer--comes natural. The problem comes when we put our time table ahead of God's. When we put our plan ahead of God's. Then we wonder why our plan didn't work? We question whether God is answering our prayers. Reality is we didn't "let it go." That's a hard thing to do if you don't know how. I'm still learning myself how to get out of my own way and let God guide me. It's like standing on top of a ledge and falling backwards into someone else's arms. If it's a good friend (and they're not trying to play a joke on you) they'll catch you. You wouldn't try this with a complete stranger or someone you haven't established a good repore with would you? Same thing with God. You have to develop and have a good relationship with God--know what He expects from you--and do it. When you have that understanding and they repore it makes those leaps of faith that much easier to do.
We're looking to buy a house this year. I've been planning it for about 2 years now. My original plan was to begin looking sometime around now or next month with an eye on moving sometime in June. HOWEVA, I made a classic mistake--started looking way too soon. Some things opened up in December and I figured I'd take a look, "just to get a gauge for what's out there." I had a plan of course. It was well thought out and this was just a look and see type thing. As with all major decisions, I took it to prayer. Knowing I'm getting God involved increases the success--as long as I don't screw it up. We started looking in December and kicked it up a notch in January. We found 2 VERY nice homes we liked--a lot. Timing wasn't right. We're still under contract where we're leasing and while both houses are still in the same school district, the busing issue is also a factor. We've had some family issues to take care of (and some are still on going). To top is all off we hit a snag with financing.
Looking at all these things popping up, it had me thinking "why am I rushing my time table for something so big? Didn't I take it to prayer? Surely God would have answered me by now?" Fact is God's been there all along. The timings not right--how do I know? Because God's plan is perfect. His timing is perfect. It's never late or wrong--truth. MY timing and actions were flawed. I got caught up in the here and now and not focused on what He has in store for me. This "issues popping up" were God's way of telling me now is not the time.
We hear people say all the time "Let go and let God." For those of faith, it's easy to take it to prayer--comes natural. The problem comes when we put our time table ahead of God's. When we put our plan ahead of God's. Then we wonder why our plan didn't work? We question whether God is answering our prayers. Reality is we didn't "let it go." That's a hard thing to do if you don't know how. I'm still learning myself how to get out of my own way and let God guide me. It's like standing on top of a ledge and falling backwards into someone else's arms. If it's a good friend (and they're not trying to play a joke on you) they'll catch you. You wouldn't try this with a complete stranger or someone you haven't established a good repore with would you? Same thing with God. You have to develop and have a good relationship with God--know what He expects from you--and do it. When you have that understanding and they repore it makes those leaps of faith that much easier to do.
Friday, March 9, 2012
Lakers at the trade deadline
I'm writing this after seething from two losses against future lottery teams (Pistons/Wizards). This road trip should have been a catapult for the remainder of the season--it very well may be after all. Most pundits are griping and saying the Lakers have to make a trade now. Why? Because they lost to two bad teams? Is the current roster the reason for that? Nope. There are many reasons for these two losses. Let's jump in!
1. The roster
the Lakers got swept out of the playoffs last year by the eventual champs. Some hold on to hope that because it was the eventual champs no shame in being ousted. WRONG! The Lakers almost lost to a decimated Hornets team in the first round! The roster is old (by NBA standards). Pau played up to his nickname (I gave him) Butta! Soft as butter! Kobe's legs/wrist, nose, etc...are all a year older in NBA years. They then trade away the 6th man in Odom for some magical beans that are yet to sprout. They let go of 'the new microwave' Shannon Brown (all respect to Vinny Johnson). The bench is a bunch of guys in awe of the roster in place. Ron Metta World Artest Peace Jenkins IV (whatever his name is today) is more eradict than a 16 year old driving on the free way for the first time. Luke Walton isn't even a good mascot anymore yet he holds a roster spot!
2. The coach
This one hurts me because I backed hiring Mike Brown. I worked in Cleveland during most of the LeBron/Mike Brown years and I defended the hire. CLEARLY after about 1/2 a season it's not working. You can criticize the X's and O's but the BIG 800 lb gorilla in the room is the players lack of respect for what Brown is trying to do. When you lose the players THIS early into your first year--nothing good can happen. The roster was suspect to start; a new offense/defensive philosophy, a coach who everyone said road the coattails of a superstar isn't getting it done.
3. the rest of the league got better
Clippers are the better team in LA..now. The Heat are meeting their lofty expectations, Bulls continue to surge, Spurs just have a better coach/roster, Houston is successfully rebuiling, the Thunder FINALLY look mature enough to make a championship run.
In short, don't make a trade--period. Finish the season and see if you can get D-Will w/o getting compensation. The draft is supposed to be the deepest in years and they Lakers got 2 first round picks (waiting for the beans to sprout). Problem is LA is used to a winner--this year that'll have to rest with the Clippers.
I feel dirty saying that...
1. The roster
the Lakers got swept out of the playoffs last year by the eventual champs. Some hold on to hope that because it was the eventual champs no shame in being ousted. WRONG! The Lakers almost lost to a decimated Hornets team in the first round! The roster is old (by NBA standards). Pau played up to his nickname (I gave him) Butta! Soft as butter! Kobe's legs/wrist, nose, etc...are all a year older in NBA years. They then trade away the 6th man in Odom for some magical beans that are yet to sprout. They let go of 'the new microwave' Shannon Brown (all respect to Vinny Johnson). The bench is a bunch of guys in awe of the roster in place. Ron Metta World Artest Peace Jenkins IV (whatever his name is today) is more eradict than a 16 year old driving on the free way for the first time. Luke Walton isn't even a good mascot anymore yet he holds a roster spot!
2. The coach
This one hurts me because I backed hiring Mike Brown. I worked in Cleveland during most of the LeBron/Mike Brown years and I defended the hire. CLEARLY after about 1/2 a season it's not working. You can criticize the X's and O's but the BIG 800 lb gorilla in the room is the players lack of respect for what Brown is trying to do. When you lose the players THIS early into your first year--nothing good can happen. The roster was suspect to start; a new offense/defensive philosophy, a coach who everyone said road the coattails of a superstar isn't getting it done.
3. the rest of the league got better
Clippers are the better team in LA..now. The Heat are meeting their lofty expectations, Bulls continue to surge, Spurs just have a better coach/roster, Houston is successfully rebuiling, the Thunder FINALLY look mature enough to make a championship run.
In short, don't make a trade--period. Finish the season and see if you can get D-Will w/o getting compensation. The draft is supposed to be the deepest in years and they Lakers got 2 first round picks (waiting for the beans to sprout). Problem is LA is used to a winner--this year that'll have to rest with the Clippers.
I feel dirty saying that...
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Looking for the next Lin-Sanity? It's coming at noon
Life as we know it will NEVER be the same again--so say the pundits of EVERY sports and news outlet. Eclipsing "Super Tuesday" primaries is not so breaking news that Peyton Manning will be released by the Colts today. OK...didn't we all think this was going to happen anyway? Well, I did think he would restructure and stay with the Colts (which would've been the smart move for the Colts) but STILL IM NOT SURPRISED! Are you? So why is everyone lamenting this press conference like it's not expected?
Why? "I'll tell you why, because they want us to kill ourselves!" Sorry I was channeling my inner Furious (from Boyz N the Hood--funny/great scene). I digress...The real "why" is simple--we want the next big story. We thirst for it. There's a fascination about who can get what detail fastest. I'm admittedly a junky for it. I subscribe to the "rumor" sites just to get a hint of what someone might be thinking. It's a part of our DO IT NOW/SEE IT NOW society.
Today you'll hear everyone and their mother compare Peyton leaving to Favre and his quest to play for all 32 teams, Montana playing for the chiefs, and a host of other stars at the end of their prime playing out the string elsewhere. You'll also hear "it'll be strange to see Peyton in another jersey" about 20,000 times today too. I don't think so. We're so used to seeing stars switch teams it's not that shocking.
The real winner today is yet to be shown--Nike. They begin their first year as uniform supplier for the NFL. they've got 6 and 7 year olds around the globe waiting in the sweat shops to churn out old #18 in Redskins, Jets, Dolphins gear as we speak! The fans of whoever gets Peyton will simultaneously see a spike in ticket prices the moment he signs as well.
Aahhh the offseason. We've missed you!
Why? "I'll tell you why, because they want us to kill ourselves!" Sorry I was channeling my inner Furious (from Boyz N the Hood--funny/great scene). I digress...The real "why" is simple--we want the next big story. We thirst for it. There's a fascination about who can get what detail fastest. I'm admittedly a junky for it. I subscribe to the "rumor" sites just to get a hint of what someone might be thinking. It's a part of our DO IT NOW/SEE IT NOW society.
Today you'll hear everyone and their mother compare Peyton leaving to Favre and his quest to play for all 32 teams, Montana playing for the chiefs, and a host of other stars at the end of their prime playing out the string elsewhere. You'll also hear "it'll be strange to see Peyton in another jersey" about 20,000 times today too. I don't think so. We're so used to seeing stars switch teams it's not that shocking.
The real winner today is yet to be shown--Nike. They begin their first year as uniform supplier for the NFL. they've got 6 and 7 year olds around the globe waiting in the sweat shops to churn out old #18 in Redskins, Jets, Dolphins gear as we speak! The fans of whoever gets Peyton will simultaneously see a spike in ticket prices the moment he signs as well.
Aahhh the offseason. We've missed you!
Monday, March 5, 2012
What's old is new again!
UNC V Duke
Lakers V Heat
Knicks V Celtics
Classic games this weekend. UNC applies the Kobe system and DOMINATES Duke at Duke. Lakers featuring Kobe Bryant (y'all know Kobe is like the lead singer who threatens to leave the group if they don't change the name: The Commodores featuring Lionel Ritchie, Tempatations feature David Ruffin...ok that didn't happen). Celtics and Knicks in a retro classic OT game with Rondo giving everyone some nice interview tape (if the Celtics are stupid enough to deal him). It felt good to get back to the way things were...even if only for a weekend.
Honorable mention to Deron Williams and his 57. Only honorable mention because I hope he's a Laker next summer. What happened to scoring?! 57 used to be got once a month by either Jordan, Kobe, LeBron, D-Wade, Shaq, Duncan, and a list of others. Heck Dana Barros scored 50 one game! I know, "who's Dana Barros?" Exactly the point. D-Will's 57 was the most points in the NBA since Kobe's 61 in 2009. Wow! All this fast paced offense doesn't give you the big scores anymore. Kind of fitting on the anniversary of Wilt's 100 points. Probably one of the few records that may not ever be broken and there's no tape of it--sad but true.
Speaking of what's old is new again, NFL bounty scandal with the Saints was front and center. Some of us remember the "Buddy Bowl" bounty years and years ago. Most of us and a lot of players are speaking out and condeming "snitches" for the bounty scandal. Consider:
NFL is cracking down on violent hits--what do you think they're going to do when they find out about 'bounties' being paid for hits?
Saints beat the fudge out of Favre the year of the bounty--think there wasn't some cash on knocking out/down the old man?!
Players (not all;mostly after retirement) criticize the NFL for not taking a firmer hand in curtailing the violence--yet 'bounty games/seasons' seems the norm (from some accounts).
I'll be honest, I like seeing the hard hits. I like seeing the players get up and walk away even better. Players are bigger, stronger, faster and smarter these days than in past games. There is also more protection but the game itself is violent by nature. As a man you are often judge by your bravado/machismo. This is gladiator without the death--at least so far...
Lakers V Heat
Knicks V Celtics
Classic games this weekend. UNC applies the Kobe system and DOMINATES Duke at Duke. Lakers featuring Kobe Bryant (y'all know Kobe is like the lead singer who threatens to leave the group if they don't change the name: The Commodores featuring Lionel Ritchie, Tempatations feature David Ruffin...ok that didn't happen). Celtics and Knicks in a retro classic OT game with Rondo giving everyone some nice interview tape (if the Celtics are stupid enough to deal him). It felt good to get back to the way things were...even if only for a weekend.
Honorable mention to Deron Williams and his 57. Only honorable mention because I hope he's a Laker next summer. What happened to scoring?! 57 used to be got once a month by either Jordan, Kobe, LeBron, D-Wade, Shaq, Duncan, and a list of others. Heck Dana Barros scored 50 one game! I know, "who's Dana Barros?" Exactly the point. D-Will's 57 was the most points in the NBA since Kobe's 61 in 2009. Wow! All this fast paced offense doesn't give you the big scores anymore. Kind of fitting on the anniversary of Wilt's 100 points. Probably one of the few records that may not ever be broken and there's no tape of it--sad but true.
Speaking of what's old is new again, NFL bounty scandal with the Saints was front and center. Some of us remember the "Buddy Bowl" bounty years and years ago. Most of us and a lot of players are speaking out and condeming "snitches" for the bounty scandal. Consider:
NFL is cracking down on violent hits--what do you think they're going to do when they find out about 'bounties' being paid for hits?
Saints beat the fudge out of Favre the year of the bounty--think there wasn't some cash on knocking out/down the old man?!
Players (not all;mostly after retirement) criticize the NFL for not taking a firmer hand in curtailing the violence--yet 'bounty games/seasons' seems the norm (from some accounts).
I'll be honest, I like seeing the hard hits. I like seeing the players get up and walk away even better. Players are bigger, stronger, faster and smarter these days than in past games. There is also more protection but the game itself is violent by nature. As a man you are often judge by your bravado/machismo. This is gladiator without the death--at least so far...
Tuesday, February 28, 2012
An appreciation
I'm playing Mr. Mom for a few days. I got 3 kids (18, 14, 8). Girl, boy, girl. You know that more goes into the day than just getting the kids up and sending them off to school. There's everything that goes before and after that. Rewind night before...
check homework: 2nd grade homework is dealing with rhombus and algebra equations--REALLY?! I didn't do well with that in 10th grade! Thankfully baby girl had a better grip on it than me. I hope that homework is right--my name is on it now.
Lunch: pack a lunch, a snack, make sure you include water for the snack, make sure the water bottle is clean, just like the lunch box. I got this! (ok, hopefully)
clothes: Now I've never been one who was fashionably gifted. If left up to me sweats/hoodies and Nike would be all I'd wear--come to think of it, that is all I wear. Baby girl has SOOOO many clothes--a lot with the tags still on them (Need to talk to the wife about that). I can't remembe what shirt went with what pants. I see sweats! NO! resist the urge! Ok, I got a decent outfit. But now I have to pack her clothes for a 3 days. What to do? I got it, bribe the 18 year old! It wont cost me much and I'm off the hook if it's not what she's supposed to wear. If it is, great! I look like a genious!
hair: Uh oh...not my strong suit. 18 yr old comes down stairs to save the day! WRONG! she put a band around her head and called it a day. I got this! (see the before and after--I'm talented)
Now all that's left is: call both schools to let them know kids aren't coming in for a couple days, check clothes getting packed, make sure you pick up baby girl off of bus because oldest is at day 1 for her job, get dinner together, pick up son from soccer practice, take back shoes to store--didn't fit well and we need them for the trip, pack my clothes, check what the kids got packed and HOW much they got packed, check BB for work stuff, get refill on prescription because it will run out while I'm gone, fuel up the van, pack snacks for the trip, set DVR for missed programs, set out of office message at work on phone and email, put mail on hold, STEAL 5 MINUTES OF SANITY, get baby girl settled in for bed, check on other kids for homework, try to spend SOME quality time with kids, check on wife, go to bed and hope to get at least 5-6 hours sleep before a 9 hour drive. I feel like I forgot something...
In short my appreciation to all those out there handling your business whether it's couples raising their kids together, single mom's, single dad's doing what they're supposed to--not asking for praise just doing what has to be done. It takes a village to raise a child. If you don't have a village handy, do the best you can and pray for guidance. No parent is perfect, but darned if we don't try to be!
God bless
check homework: 2nd grade homework is dealing with rhombus and algebra equations--REALLY?! I didn't do well with that in 10th grade! Thankfully baby girl had a better grip on it than me. I hope that homework is right--my name is on it now.
Lunch: pack a lunch, a snack, make sure you include water for the snack, make sure the water bottle is clean, just like the lunch box. I got this! (ok, hopefully)
clothes: Now I've never been one who was fashionably gifted. If left up to me sweats/hoodies and Nike would be all I'd wear--come to think of it, that is all I wear. Baby girl has SOOOO many clothes--a lot with the tags still on them (Need to talk to the wife about that). I can't remembe what shirt went with what pants. I see sweats! NO! resist the urge! Ok, I got a decent outfit. But now I have to pack her clothes for a 3 days. What to do? I got it, bribe the 18 year old! It wont cost me much and I'm off the hook if it's not what she's supposed to wear. If it is, great! I look like a genious!
Now all that's left is: call both schools to let them know kids aren't coming in for a couple days, check clothes getting packed, make sure you pick up baby girl off of bus because oldest is at day 1 for her job, get dinner together, pick up son from soccer practice, take back shoes to store--didn't fit well and we need them for the trip, pack my clothes, check what the kids got packed and HOW much they got packed, check BB for work stuff, get refill on prescription because it will run out while I'm gone, fuel up the van, pack snacks for the trip, set DVR for missed programs, set out of office message at work on phone and email, put mail on hold, STEAL 5 MINUTES OF SANITY, get baby girl settled in for bed, check on other kids for homework, try to spend SOME quality time with kids, check on wife, go to bed and hope to get at least 5-6 hours sleep before a 9 hour drive. I feel like I forgot something...
In short my appreciation to all those out there handling your business whether it's couples raising their kids together, single mom's, single dad's doing what they're supposed to--not asking for praise just doing what has to be done. It takes a village to raise a child. If you don't have a village handy, do the best you can and pray for guidance. No parent is perfect, but darned if we don't try to be!
God bless
Monday, February 27, 2012
NBA All-Star game
As I was winding down a busy weekend (see "TIME" blog for explanation) I turned to the NBA All-Star game. I wasn't looking forward to it--honestly I was indifferent about it. Had their been a good movie in Redbox I probably would've missed it. I watched the opening intro's of the players and found myself getting into it. The announcers talked about all the underlying stories (Kobe needing 19 points to pass MJ for all time scoring for the All-star game, Magic Johnson's 20 year anniversary of his last All-Star--post positive HIV test, etc...). Once they tipped it off, it was basketball at 100 MPH--and I was loving it! I forgot how fun these games are. Granted, if you like defense--viewer discretion is advised.
The lobs were ridiculous! CP3 to basically everyone; D-Wade and LeBron--there chemistry on the court is borderline illegal! Westbrook came in and showed out! He played like a guy at his first all star game and he was doing it big! KD showed he can shoot from anywhere in AND outside of the building. Kobe--Black Mamba--was, well Kobe! He got the record and a broken nose to boot (courtesy of D-Wade). Great! why great?! The Heat come for a visit to LA and the guy with the longest memory in the NBA will be ready and loaded for bear! To quote a great philosopher (Casey Cousin III) "People need to stop acting like Kobe Bryant isn't stil Kobe Bryant!" (I love that line!)
The NFL and MLB can take some pointers from the NBA. This is BY FAR the best all star game of the big 3 sports. In a time where sports are looking to appease fans more, NFL and MLB should see what the NBA is doing and figure out how to get that kind of interest in their games. Not sure it's possible, but worth a try!
The lobs were ridiculous! CP3 to basically everyone; D-Wade and LeBron--there chemistry on the court is borderline illegal! Westbrook came in and showed out! He played like a guy at his first all star game and he was doing it big! KD showed he can shoot from anywhere in AND outside of the building. Kobe--Black Mamba--was, well Kobe! He got the record and a broken nose to boot (courtesy of D-Wade). Great! why great?! The Heat come for a visit to LA and the guy with the longest memory in the NBA will be ready and loaded for bear! To quote a great philosopher (Casey Cousin III) "People need to stop acting like Kobe Bryant isn't stil Kobe Bryant!" (I love that line!)
The NFL and MLB can take some pointers from the NBA. This is BY FAR the best all star game of the big 3 sports. In a time where sports are looking to appease fans more, NFL and MLB should see what the NBA is doing and figure out how to get that kind of interest in their games. Not sure it's possible, but worth a try!
Time
Time is promised to no one. We've all heard that before. Usually we reflect on things like this when we lose a loved one, or we have a life changing event. This weekend my grandmother celebrated her 99th birthday! 99 years! If that's not a blessing, I don't know what is! Same weekend my father in law passed away. I spent about 30 minutes on the phone with grandma talking about everything from the weather to my new recipe for cooking a ham (came out great--ask me my secret!). I spent several hours consoling my wife and kids, making travel plans for her, making plans for the kids and myself while she's gone, plus doing what I can to help lift her spirits during this difficult time.
Why don't we have an appreciation for things more frequently? Is it because we lose track of what's important day to day? Maybe. We only get one life to live. How we live it says a lot about who we are and what we value. Matt 6:19-21 says "do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."
You can tell what's important to someone by where they spend their time--put forth their effort. I am certainly not one to judge--I've misspent plenty of time and opportunity in my life on frivolous things. Ultimately I have to live with those decisions. Only thing I can do now is make sure my focus is what's important to me--not what other's think should be important to me. It's your one and only life, how are you living it?
Why don't we have an appreciation for things more frequently? Is it because we lose track of what's important day to day? Maybe. We only get one life to live. How we live it says a lot about who we are and what we value. Matt 6:19-21 says "do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."
You can tell what's important to someone by where they spend their time--put forth their effort. I am certainly not one to judge--I've misspent plenty of time and opportunity in my life on frivolous things. Ultimately I have to live with those decisions. Only thing I can do now is make sure my focus is what's important to me--not what other's think should be important to me. It's your one and only life, how are you living it?
Friday, February 24, 2012
HOF worthy? MMMMM....
I just read an article on ESPN announcing the finalist for the Pro Basketball HOF. It's headline by Reggie Miller (should be a no-brainer this time). As the you get to the bottom of the article, an interesting name pops up from the "contribution committee." Phil Knight. Phil Knight is the co-founder of Nike. Is Phil Knight worthy of being inducted into the Pro Basketball HOF? I need someone to give me an argument that a Nike co-founder should get in. In my EXPERT opinion, he's not. I don't see what his contribution was to the pro game. Air Jordan's have impacted society, but an impact to pro ball?! C'MON MAN! I'd put in Joe-Bob Spaulding first! Why Phil Knight? The Hall of Fame should be for those who have a noticeable impact on the game. Someone who changed the game (via rules or strategies) but simply selling gear and shoes--NAAAA!
As a kid growing up the shoes of choice were Chuck Taylor's by Converse (or Konverse as MY shoes used to say--thanks to my parents buying them from the knock off store. I'm still scarred over that). Without Googling it, I couldn't tell you Chuck Taylor is/was. I can tell Dr. J used to wear Chuck's and Dr. J was the man! From there you got Air Force One (Nike), Weapons (Converse), Air Jordans (Nike), Hammers (British Knights)...just checking to see if you're paying attention :)
Don't get me wrong. I'm not hatin' on Phil Knight. I'm sure the millions (AND MILLIONS in my Rock voice) I've spent on Nike shoes, shirts, sweats, etc... probably paid for a car or two of his. I'm just saying the HOF should be sacred--select company only. Exceptions need not apply.
...or maybe it's just me...
As a kid growing up the shoes of choice were Chuck Taylor's by Converse (or Konverse as MY shoes used to say--thanks to my parents buying them from the knock off store. I'm still scarred over that). Without Googling it, I couldn't tell you Chuck Taylor is/was. I can tell Dr. J used to wear Chuck's and Dr. J was the man! From there you got Air Force One (Nike), Weapons (Converse), Air Jordans (Nike), Hammers (British Knights)...just checking to see if you're paying attention :)
Don't get me wrong. I'm not hatin' on Phil Knight. I'm sure the millions (AND MILLIONS in my Rock voice) I've spent on Nike shoes, shirts, sweats, etc... probably paid for a car or two of his. I'm just saying the HOF should be sacred--select company only. Exceptions need not apply.
...or maybe it's just me...
What's important to you?
My pastor did a great series about choices in life. Part of one of his sermons asked "what is important to you?" Most people would naturally say family, friends, relationship with God, etc...He posed the follow up question "what do you make/schedule time for?" If those things you listed were important wouldn't you have a regular schedule to devote time to them? Smacked me right in the face. Like most, I said those things were 'important' to me but the reality is I didn't have a regular schedule to devote time. In my head I 'planned to do this and that' but those plans were usually subject to change. It made me realize I really didn't schedule time for the things that I claimed were important to me. I started making a schedule to devote time to study, exercise, family time and just as important--ME time! So far it's given me balance that I didn't have before. Try it, see if it works for you. I'd be interested in hearing any comments on this one.
thanks for reading :)
thanks for reading :)
Thursday, February 23, 2012
Jumping out there...who's with me?
Man, this is my first time doing, starting, writing a blog. I gotta give a shout to my cousin Casey "C3" Cousin III for inspiring me and giving me the idea to do this. Before I get into it I want to start by saying I give all praise to my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Without His love, grace and giving me a way to be redeem I'm not here.
Ok, a little about me and what I see this blog becoming. This will be my creative outlet for short stories, ideas for books, movies, my EXPERT take on sports, love, kids, music and just bein' ordinary folk. I hope you enjoy what I put out there. I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but at least respect the thought process behind it. Feel free to leave your comments or contact me. All I ask is be respectful.
First topic:
How many people are actually doing what they thought they would be doing (career wise)? You go through high school and college with a career path in mind. Is it to make money or to make yourself happy? There's an expression if you do what you love you'll never work a day in your life. Sounds true, but is it? I love movies and sports. I never dedicated the time to be professional at either. I used to fancy myself a writer. I didn't have enough discipline to finish more than a children's book. Yet, I'd love to be in the film industry. I like golfing (if what I do can be considered golfing). I didn't take the time to get better and improve my game because it wasn't important to me. So what's my point? I'm successful as a Quality Manager for a large US company. I've credited my success to working hard and putting in the day to day work needed to be successful. I've looked for and taken opportunities that have worked out well in my favor. FARTHEST thing from my mind when I was finishing high school, joining the Air Force and finishing college. However I found my niche. It feels like work MOST of the time. There are those days that you feel a sense of satisfaction that you chose correctly. I guess I've never met anyone who is doing what they love and doesn't consider the time and effort that they put into it as "work." My pastor gave an example a couple weeks ago of a famous golfer (not Tiger) who told someone in the crowd after repeatedly saying to him "I'd give anything to play like you." He said "no you wouldn't. I get up everyday at the crack of dawn and hit 1000 golf balls. My hands start to bleed. I go in and get them bandaged up then go hit another 1000 golf balls. I do this everyday to make myself better." WOW!
There's nothing wrong with excelling at something you didn't plan on. Remember even your "Dream Job" requires a lot of work and sacrifice. I'll leave my first entry with another familiar expression: "anything worth having is worth working for!"
scripture for today: Deuteronomy 8:17-18
You may say to yourself, "My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me." But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your ancestors, as it is today.
Ok, a little about me and what I see this blog becoming. This will be my creative outlet for short stories, ideas for books, movies, my EXPERT take on sports, love, kids, music and just bein' ordinary folk. I hope you enjoy what I put out there. I don't expect everyone to agree with me, but at least respect the thought process behind it. Feel free to leave your comments or contact me. All I ask is be respectful.
First topic:
How many people are actually doing what they thought they would be doing (career wise)? You go through high school and college with a career path in mind. Is it to make money or to make yourself happy? There's an expression if you do what you love you'll never work a day in your life. Sounds true, but is it? I love movies and sports. I never dedicated the time to be professional at either. I used to fancy myself a writer. I didn't have enough discipline to finish more than a children's book. Yet, I'd love to be in the film industry. I like golfing (if what I do can be considered golfing). I didn't take the time to get better and improve my game because it wasn't important to me. So what's my point? I'm successful as a Quality Manager for a large US company. I've credited my success to working hard and putting in the day to day work needed to be successful. I've looked for and taken opportunities that have worked out well in my favor. FARTHEST thing from my mind when I was finishing high school, joining the Air Force and finishing college. However I found my niche. It feels like work MOST of the time. There are those days that you feel a sense of satisfaction that you chose correctly. I guess I've never met anyone who is doing what they love and doesn't consider the time and effort that they put into it as "work." My pastor gave an example a couple weeks ago of a famous golfer (not Tiger) who told someone in the crowd after repeatedly saying to him "I'd give anything to play like you." He said "no you wouldn't. I get up everyday at the crack of dawn and hit 1000 golf balls. My hands start to bleed. I go in and get them bandaged up then go hit another 1000 golf balls. I do this everyday to make myself better." WOW!
There's nothing wrong with excelling at something you didn't plan on. Remember even your "Dream Job" requires a lot of work and sacrifice. I'll leave my first entry with another familiar expression: "anything worth having is worth working for!"
scripture for today: Deuteronomy 8:17-18
You may say to yourself, "My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me." But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms his covenant, which he swore to your ancestors, as it is today.
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